"Engagement,How Should It Be" By: @jb123steemCreated with Sketch.

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Each of us has and act called Love. This is very special and important to is human here on earth. For this challenge, initiated by @okere-blessing, allow me to share my ideas about Engagement scenarios. This opinion I have are base on my personal reflection and experience together with Partners in Life. There are lots of obstacles and challenge I encounter before I get the "YES" answer from my partner, and I am very happy about it.
What Is Engagement In A relationship?

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Engagement is very important if we want to beloved by our partners or the girl we would like to become our partners in Life. Through this, we can each side between us and our soon to be partner. We will know his or her likes/dislikes, attitudes, the feelings and other kinds of Emotional feelings. First, we will talked to her or him, any topics that might be very interesting, either funny stories. This will help to our partner to become enjoyable and to make her or him happy.

At what age should a guy or lady to be engaged?

In my own opinion and personal experience, the ages should be 20 [ For the Girls or ladies] and 24 [For the boys or guys] well, this kind of age was also my age when I decided to enter the love relationship. Courting is the first way before getting married, we talked with each other, laughing with each other, eating, traveling and other wonderful activities we did.

What are the things you consider in a person before engaging or accepting engagement?

It is right to consider about knowing with each other. This is the most important move should we do before doing the next level of relationship. In this way, we can really know the attitude, the hidden secrets of the person and other kinds we want to know in person we loved. There is no need to rush about engaging, more importantly is we observed them by their moves.

How long is right for engagement before married?

For me it takes 4 years of engagement before we decided to married last year. 4 years is the best engagement period and im surely 100% guarantee that the attitude we want to know will surely know and it is for us if we are satisfied to be with her or him or should we wait for another time. Engagement have many obstacles and challenges in relationships but we should face it and conquered if we want to keep the relationship between you and your partner, become stronger.

Are there things that can change someone's mind after engagement?

For me honestly, there are things tht can be change, and one of this is the attitude IF, the person is very fun making bad habits just like trouble maker, greedy, selfish amd other kinds of bad things, this can be change of we really want and have the YES answer to the person we love.

Is Engagement guarantee for marriage?

This is really guarantee so that we will know the person very well. This will help to maintain the good relationship between us and our Partner. In this way also, Soon if we have our own family, we can manage and maintain the peaceful way of living together with our children as one Family.

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