The stigma of the adopted child.
Hello, my good Steemit friends! I am happy to have you here reading through my post, in which I talked about The stigma of the adopted child in the @okere-blessing contest. Stigma is a hindrance to family progress since it brings about division.
Who do you think should represent the family as the first son?
From the story and even the question, it is clear to me that the first son of the rich man should represent the family and not the adopted son.
The parent of the adopted child can come at anytime to collect their son, whereas the biological son would always remain with his parent's people often say blood is thicker than water, meaning no matter what your son is your blood and it can't be compared to an adopted son.
Do you think an adopted child has equal rights with the biological child?
Yes, I think an adopted child has equal rights to a biological child. However, it depends on family background I can say that some families have a good way of treating both the adopted child and the biological child.
The equal right should be given to both children whether biological or adopted since both are for the common good of a family. Although, I have seen a situation where a man and his wife, adopted a child and were taking good care of the child, things get changed when at the time they have their biological child.
What can make a mother change her love for her once-loved child?
The character of the loved child can make a mother change her love for him or her. In a family of more than 2 children, a mother can love one above others when the child has a good character and is hard-working, but at some point when the child is growing up and he or she decides to change his/her character the mother will change her love for the child.
Have you encountered any problems as an adopted child or have you seen an unfair love on the adopted child before? Feel free to let us know.
I have not encountered any problems as an adopted child, but I have seen the unfair love of adopted children before in my neighborhood which I introduced earlier. There was this man and his wife that were looking for a child even if it was just one.
They waited for so long and taught all hope was gone and then adopted a child whom they were treating very well. They so much loved the child, but things began going wrong with the adopted child at the time God bless them with their biological son.
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Yeah you're right because i have also witness where an adopted child was treated nicely as King but once they have their own biological child everything change overnight from King treatment to slave treatment which is very bad. Does it means that people can't stop to pretend when they had nothing to when they have everything?
Wish you all the best in your contest one love 💙🌹✌️
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