Steemit Engagement Challenge S5/W6 - "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed".

icon-monday (66)Memberin Steem4Nigeria • 2 years ago

A state of lasting affection and intimacy between two people is known as friendship. According to culture, friendship is an important relationship in a person's life.

Friendships are an important aspect of development in middle childhood, when much time is spent on social play and social interaction with peers, providing many opportunities to expand on the friendship skills they acquire in early childhood.

Some people see friends as the opposite of enemies. It's better not to be an enemy. There is a saying "show me your friend and I know who you are", this tells us that friends share many things in common, it can be sports, dressing, ways of communication and many more.

Many things bring people together like friends. Ambition for example or better said career when people are heading towards the same goal and direction they tend to form friendships because of the inner bond.

Share your understanding of the saying "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed".

A friend in need is a true friend

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This is a popular saying and what is the real meaning or message it conveys. "Right friend". Not the flower or best friend that makes us cry. They are a group of people who will always want to be involved in your ups and downs. They will stay with you in your trying period, give you the required advice, motivate you and also be a part of your success story. A true friend will never want you to fall, instead they will try their best to keep you sailing higher.

Reliability

To you, calling someone your friend means that someone is reliable. Someone who you can predict his movement on the positive and negative side. A friend has caused the downfall of many. Cases have shown this.

My father used to tell us a story when I was little, a friend visited his old friend's house, met them for a meal, they called him to join them and he did, a few minutes after the police force department known as Special Anti Robbery The Squad entered the house and rounded up everyone in the house.

A visiting friend hesitated and told them he was new to the state and decided to check on his old friend to see how he was doing. The police ignored his claims and framed him as a criminal, at the end of the day he was executed with his other friends because the other friends insisted that he was part of them.

Who is your friend

I'm not giving you an answer to that, all I want from you is to get an answer. The person you shared a desk with at work, that classmate, and the person who sat with you in your worship centers. This group of people is not your friend, they could be your colleagues.

When I was young (if I'm not mistaken, I should be 4 or 5) I always called everyone friend, until one day I went for a long walk with my grandmother and someone said hello to me. The grandmother immediately asked who the boy was.

He was my friend. My grandmother's appearance means a lot. I know she is not happy with my answer, later now she told me that no one is her friend yet, she asked me where I know this boy who happens to be my classmate, she said that boy is your classmate. And since then I can easily separate a colleague from a friend.

When my friend changed to something against society, he immediately changed the title.

An object perceived as valuable because of its aesthetic or historical significance is the correct definition of an antique, this definition can be applied to a good friend.

Your friend is your ambassador and you are his or her ambassador. If you have a good friend, keep him well. Finding a good friend is like looking for treasure, Having a friend is worth more than gold and diamonds. Then losing a good friend is like……

Do you have anyone you can call a friend indeed? (Choose one regardless of the distance apart at the moment) How did you meet and how long have you known each other? (Share his/her name and picture).

I have many friends who are friend indeed, they have been of help to me, they have been of help to me. Like I said earlier I have numerous friends but I will like to mention one for now. He is a kind of friend that have been of help to me, he always wants the best out of me. His name is Stephen Linus.

I met this young man when I visited my uncle in 2014. When I visited my uncle I was opportune to follow my uncle to his working place. My uncle is a plumber and also work on aluminum. When I got there he was very friendly with me as if we crossed each path before. So we introduced ourselves and that's how we became friends. He has been an honest friend to me, he is caring to me as if am his brother.

What are the special qualities that attracted you to the person or the sacrifices they have made for you in the past? Do you think your friendship remained intact as it started?

He's a friend that knows about my feelings, my personality and my weaknesses. He knows how to hold space for me to heal. He always understands what i go through and knows how to take care of it.

Indeed, he contributes to my happiness. He always make me happy. No matter how sad I am are and how life through me with gloomy moments, our friendship have contributed to our happiness and we tend to forget our problems.

Our friendship still remains intact and will always remain intact no matter. Even though we are living close to each other, but that can't be a barrier to our friendship. We chat and call each other often,and sometimes in our leisure time we hang out together. We are always there for each other in times of support.

Is the person on Steemit and how is he/she faring in the Ecosystem? If they are not, why have they not joined through you? (Are there special reasons for that).

He is not yet on steemit. He doesn't really have time for himself because he works for someone,and he always work from Monday to Sunday. But I have discussing steemit with him and a promise he will register one day.

Write a short message to tell him/her how amazing he/she is.

Dear Stephen Linus. I always feel like you were given to me as a reward for my good work. Am very happy to have you in my life as a friend. I always pray and wish that our friendship will last forever.