CONTEST: Courtship How should it be?

in Steem4Nigeria7 months ago

Hello everyone!!

I welcome you to my blood where I will be giving my own opinion on courtship.

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In your own understanding how can you explain courtship to your friend.


In my own opinion courtship is a period of time where two people get interest in starting a romantic relationship, get to know each other very well with intention of determining compatibility for a long term commitment.


Courtship also involves series of activities and social interactions which includes spending time with each other, deepening emotional connections and dating. As individuals explores thier feelings, courtship also involves expression of affection for each other, acts of kindness and exchange of gifts


Courtship can be described as a deliberate approach for building a romantic relationship compare to casual dating.


Do you believe in courtship before marriage.


Getting into Courtship before marriage is is a common cultural and social practice in different society. And like I mentioned courtship involves getting building a meaningful relationships, getting to know a potential partner and also assessment of compatibility before getting into marriage.


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The advantages of courtship can vary base on someone beliefs, personal preferences and cultural norms. And lastly, to engage in courtship before marriage or not is a personal decision for someone or couples to make base on thier traditions, preferences and own values


How many years should courtship last before marriage.


I can really tell how long courtship should last. How long courtship should last before marriage may vary depending on individuals, cultural and relationships factors. I don't think there's an ideal or specific time frame that is apply to couples .


Some individuals or couples may decided to have a longer courtship period and while others may choose a longer one. It's depends on couples/individual shared goals, compatibility, readiness and personal preference.


Is courtship a guarantee for successful marriage.


Courtship isn't a guarantee for successful marriage. Courtship can only help individuals or couples to build a solid foundation of understanding and trust, the success of any marriage depends on various factors which includes efforts to maintaining a healthy relationship, effective communication, shared values and mutual respect. Courtship can only help individuals or couples to know each better and to assess, it's doesn't guarantee successful marriage as conflicts and even challenges can occur even after successful courtship period.


What is your say about sex during courtship ? Is it a yes or No to you let's have your reasons.


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Many people thinks and believe that engaging themselves in sex during courtship is a personal choice between consenting adults and others have religious and cultural beliefs that says abstinence util marriage.


One of the reasons why I should consider sex during courtship may includes deepening emotional connections and exploring physical compatibility.


Some individuals on the other hand may choose to stay away from sex during courtship for thier reasons. This can be desire to stay away from potential emotional attachment with commitment or it's can be influenced by moral values and religious beliefs.


Since am in favor of sex during courtship, I would say that it's allows individuals to make informed decisions about commiting to life long partnersship


The decision for sex during courtship should be a personal stuff and it's important for individual communicate openly, make choice that will align with thier beliefs and values and over all respect each other boundaries


Any advice for those in courtship right now.


Below are few advice for those who are in a relationship.

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Be honest and communicate openly. Honesty and good communication is a good foundation to any successful relationship. Be always open about your needs and desires and also encourage your opposite partner to do same. This will build strong trust and understand between the two parties

Secondly, Know each other very well. Courtship is a better time for any individual to explore and get to know each other deeply, spend your quality time together with your partner, engage in conversation that has meanings and carry out activities that will allow the you understand each others values and interest

In Conclusion


Courtship is unique and most of them always comes with its own dynamics and challenges, learn from your experiences and trust your intuition, works towards building a solid and strong foundation for a healthy relationship.


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 7 months ago 

Courtship doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage, it’s a room to check for compatibility

I wish you the best in your entry

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