Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 57: What Gender Do You Prefer Your Child To Be?
Hey friends, Happy New Month! This is my first creative post of the month. I'm excited to kick things off by discussing gender comparisons.
We have a responsibility to educate and support our children regardless of their gender. Often, the values we instill in women are passed on to their children, regardless of their sex.
The cost of raising children has increased significantly. While gender is no longer the sole determinant, it remains true that raising girls can be more expensive than raising boys. Girls often require extra attention in various aspects due to their nature as females. They are considered more fragile and need additional support compared to boys. The inherent differences between genders contribute to ongoing gender inequality issues. Social and economic limitations in our society often put girls at a disadvantage, leading to additional costs for their upbringing. Girls also require extra healthcare attention, especially in terms of reproductive health, on top of general healthcare services. Additionally, they need increased security and protection due to the common harassment and abuse they face.
In many parts of the world, the concept of having a male heir is deeply ingrained in the African culture. The idea of having a son to carry on the family name and take care of the parents in their old age is highly valued. In households without a male child, there is often a strong desire to have one, either by birth or through adoption. However, I believe that both male and female children are equally valuable. Each gender has its unique strengths and abilities, and they should complement each other. While traditionally the male child is expected to be the heir, the girl child is often seen as the one who will take care of her aging parents. As parents, it's important to consider what truly matters to us. Are we focused on the present, or are we thinking about our future when we may not be as strong and independent?
In society, cultural norms have historically influenced the upbringing of girls, often emphasizing domestic roles and behavioral control. This contrasts with the upbringing of boys, who are typically encouraged to embrace freedom as a core value. Boys may be more prone to misbehavior during their teenage years compared to girls. In many households, girls receive more extensive training focused on preparing them to manage their future homes, often expected to prioritize their future husband's needs. This can lead to reservations and challenges for them.
The following statements are presented to promote equality and break down barriers between genders. Though perspectives may vary, I'll share my thoughts on the matter. While the girl child may not exhibit the same energy levels and physical prowess as their male counterparts, given the opportunity, they can still achieve the same goals. The focus should be on providing equal opportunities without emphasizing the time it takes to achieve them. |
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