ENGAGEMENT…HOW SHOULD IT BE
INTRODUCTION
Hello my friends, how are you doing? I hope you are all doing well? This is my first time in writing in this community, I came across this contest and I made up my mind to participate, so I will be telling you all I know about engagement.
WHAT IS ENGAGEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP
In my definition engagement is simply defined as when a lover come together to know themselves and to prepare their self for marriage.
AT WHAT AGE SHOULD A GUY OR LADY BE ENGAGED?
In my country "NIGERIA" it is normal for a lady or a guy to be engaged at they age of 18, it does not matter they age, it matters how they are both matured, and they are able to understand themselves. But they nomal age to be angaged is 20 and above that for me.
WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU CONSIDER IN A PERSON BEFORE ENGAGING OR ACCEPTING ENGAGEMENT.
In a relationship they are things you consider before accepting they person you love, here are them;
- Maturity
- TRUST
- Age
- Character
- Family background
This are they important things to be considered before accepting a relationship.
HOW LONG IS RIGHT FOR ENGAGEMENT BEFORE MARRIAGE?
It is right for both lovers to stay for like 1 year before making their decision, so that they can study and know each other well. It very important because in future they won't regrets any of their actions.
ARE THERE THINGS THAT CAN CHANGE SOMEONE'S MIND AFTER ENGAGEMENT
Yes they're things that can change the guy or the lady minds, maybe it can be they character of both sex, and each of them can't handle it right.
They most important thing that can change the both sex mind is "CHARACTER"AND "TRUST".
It they worse thing that can happen in a relationship.
IS ENGAGEMENT A GUARANTEE FOR MARRIAGE
CONCLUSION
So friends that all I know about ENGAGEMENT, I hope have done a nice job. Thanks for reading.
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I invite three people to participate in this contest
@mesola, @imohpeters, @imoh
I concur with what definition you gave for "Engagement". You clearly stated it in a simple and understandable way.
Thank you very much @chiomzy810