So true, marriage is not something you jump in and out because of love at first sight, a lot of people are blinded just by love itself without considering other factors that involves in marriage, they most ignore red flags, after which they use it as reason to divorce, and this is the reason divorce rate are high. This generation with the way things are going may not consider marriage a lifetime union, "Some people now vow for better, for better" not "for better for worst" any longer, this is why when they are tired, they seek for a divorce, however this is not suppose to be so. Well, you have made a nice post.