My past mistakes, I would like to correct if time were reviseable.

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Greetings to you friends, I hope you all are doing fine, happy new week. It's another seasoned contest for this week in steemit 4 Nigeria as organised by @josepha with usual very interesting topic " My past mistakes, I would like to correct if time were reviseable". I will not hesitate to disclose my own experience.

What, in your own words, do you understand by the word "mistake"?

Mistakes in my own private and personal way of analysis, it's wrongly taking something else instead of the supposed something to take for one temporal reason or the other, which is regrettably realised after word. For instance, if someone is displayed of options of items like corn 🌽 and car to choose from, but for one reason or the other at the present time, decided to choose corn where later, realised the importance, if he had chosen a car, he or she had made a mistake and the immediate thing that follows after mistakes is regret.

In other words, it's a wrong choice, actions or performance which is heavily regrettable in the time of realisation or need. A decision without thorough though and check, paying no attention to details before actions.

Mistakes could be opportunity and time mismanagement, doing something wrongly, miss of luck, mistake is also misplacement of priority, wrong decisions, acting without paying attention to details, careless and cussion Less performance.

Discuss the mistakes you've made in life that you would have wished to correct if time were reviseable.

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Going straight to the points, I was into business, trade to be precise, few years ago, I was making wave in the trade business, my shop was filled with varieties of goods, I was famous, popular and one of the biggest biggest business man in the town, I was on money absolutely, goods were supplied to my warehouse three times in a day and my name was one of the the talk of the town.

Now, time is one thing that brings about change of circumstances. So in the process of time, other business minded persons began to spring out and were waxing strong around me, as time progresses, more people began to establish their own businesses and all around were filled with business men and women.

So what happened next, was that my customers started reducing, especially those that have had vendors around their houses, the found it no point coming to my end to buy, my goods stocked and supply reduced as customers continuous to reduce drastically, subsequently, money started reducing to the lowest as well.

I was indeed on money but highly regrettable to me, which is today one of the mistakes I had made in my life, that I made less use of the money and the opportunity, considering the fact, that time can change, where I have always said, if I had known, I would had used that money to erect a better building project at the time of the business boom.

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Secondly, I made a mistake in the issue of relationship: At about early last year, I had a girlfriend who was so good to me in that there has been never anything I do, that she is not over there for me, she goes to purchase for me any items I sent her to go and purchase with lovely account which I personally don't expect such analysis of expenses.

Now, about 2 months later, there this second girl, you know us men, sometimes, your mind can be deceiving you, so this second girl, just fall helplessly into my life too, but then I told her that I have a girlfriend already but she kept on struggling in too many ways to outsmart and my formal girlfriend was already gone away after some likely hard talk on her.

To cut the long story short, this new girlfriend whom I excerted my energy on, is married already but had misunderstanding with the husband in their own community, came to the town and found me and feel like am better than her husband and thought she can ran out of her husband from her community and be with me. With all ever pretence.

This made me to believe that woman as a vessel made for man should be carefully handled because some of them, only think of action that favours their lives and body not the Consequences. Because she and the husband has not given birth to children I never had evidence not by phone communication, stature and look that she is married, she can busy the lines that can call her anytime she is with me.

So as soon the secret was leaked to me, I went on to survey even passing through their community and it was true, just that she had some misunderstanding with the husband who is waiting for her to complete her academics before bearing children, I returned back and called on her spoke hard on her, she confessed in tears 😭 but encourage her to return to her husband with many advice that it's a taboo in my land for a man to have anything to do with a married woman in this regard.

The regrettable things here which is the mistake I had made is that I was supposed to start the girl's marrital status Survey and verification much more earlier than that and too never let the formal girl who loved me so much to go. And now, I don't know if I should accept fully new person or go and enquire about my formal girl and apologize to her. Am still indecisive.

So these are the two mistakes, that I would love to correct if time were reviseable.

What are the causes of those mistakes?

Yes I would say that I am my humble self caused it because as a man in charge, should be able to look before I lip and be very much aware that not all that glitters is gold and can also blame the second girl for living a life of pretence, driving away fellow girl probably because she found herself more beautiful and trying to hit two men's head together.

What are the consequences of those mistakes in your present life?

Business trade

In the business trade and money mismanagement, today am not a bigger landlord I dreamt of and have less achievement records from the trade business in those days if boom and none competitive.

Relationship

The Consequences, remained that by now I should have gone far in relationship issues, secondly, made me to start afresh, the relationship I should have created already.

And I lost the opportunity to be with someone who were doing everything within her power to be with me.

And too, warrant me stressing myself with big apologies tracing the end of my formal girlfriend, if she's still available. And too in the torments of heartbreak inflicted by the second girl.

Another Consequences, is that this made me lose trust and confidence in some women especially when it comes to relationship. I felt a wasted resources and time.

What lesson have you learned from those mistakes?

I have actually learnt to make use of opportunities as at when it comes, never procrastinate because next hour can change and the may no longer be there.

I learnt to look before I lip which means in my next relationship, I must pass through thorough check before I proceed into it.

Pour out, frankly, your heart's advice to others, so they can avoid making the same mistake in their own lives.

Mistakes are never a thing of joy, it's rather a thing of regret I therefore advise everyone to carefully examine their actions before embarking on it so that you shall have nothing to regrettable as a mistake in future.

Life is liken unto the students, that have to learn everything that is at disposal in primary one, so that in primary two, he or she will definitely have nothing regrettable as a mistake.

In the issue of one, having the privilege and opportunities to be in touch with money, don't mismanage it or eat them all but invest on something that will give you more money tomorrow or in feature because time remains a visitor, it comes and goes alongside with the opportunity therein.

In relationship, is a vital and delicate area of life, don't dive in it in haste, take it one step after another, give yourself a space of time to know the inward of your decision and actions, don't over trust information until confirmation. If you have made any regrettable mistakes in your life, take it as nothing happened gather back your pieces and renew your stand. You that began a project that collapsed, will surely build that which Will stand and stand forever and lastly you will have every cause to enjoy your life to the fullest.

Thank you so very much this is the much take of experience I have to disclose for this contest and want to invite @petface @entity01 and @ogetr to also participate.

Thank you.