SEC S15W4: "Broken Trust"
Hello wonderful steemians. How are we all doing? It's another contest and this time i am talking about "broken trust" Before i commence on this amazing contest i would love to invite @alexenderpeace and @presh07 to participate in this contest
WHAT DO I THINK THE WORD TRUST MEANS?
Trust is to believe that a person is genuine and sincere and they won't hurt you deliberately. Is to be able to confide on with someone without fear of the that person using it against you.
PRESENTLY IN YOUR COUNTRY, DO THE CITIZENS FEEL SAFE TO TRUST ONE ANOTHER ? IF NOT WHY? AND IF YES WHY?
Presently in my country most people don't feel safe trusting others. In recent times we find less and less people of integrity. You hear news of a friend using his friend for ritual, people even use their parents. Betrayer of trust, Ladies backstabbing their friends due to material things.
Alot of atrocities on going and these issues usually raise from people that are familiar with each other. Alot of people find it difficult to trust because of how they have trusted someone and the person hurt them. Generally the moral standards are going down and everyone is conscious of who they allow into their life.
HAVE YOU HAD ANY EXPERIENCE WHERE YOUR TRUST IN SOMEONE WAS BROKEN? OR SUCH A SCENARIO FROM A FRIEND?
Have heard few experiences when i trusted someone and the person turned around to break that trust. On one occasion i lended out money to a friend and i gave the person a particular time to pay up because i be needing the money but when it got to that time the person deliberately avoided me and it was very painful because i needed the money to sort out some needs at that particular time.
I also had a friend that someone hurt her too. Her fiance came from overseas for them to officially wed and both leave the country unknowingly to this my friend that one of her female friends had eye on the man she manipulated him and without the knowledge of my friend travelled back with the lady. It was a very painful experience for my lady friend.
CAN YOU SUGGEST WAYS TO MEND BROKEN TRUST?
Broken trust is very difficult to be mended in some extreme cases impossible to mend. But when someone hurts you and come back to apologize the best thing to do is to give that person another chance but observe for a while if that person has truly change as much as you are willing to work with that person again, do it with wisdom. For broken trust to be mended another level of trust needs to be built by the defaulting party committing to it and the offended party be willing to let that person prove the genuineness of his or her repentance.
Thanks for reading. Your comments are welcomed.
Trust have really hurt people that some find it difficult to trust people. Like your friend that trusted her fellow female friend which turned out to be a broken trust.
I don't think that trusting some one now will be very easy again. Because that person you trust as your best friend may turn out to broke the trust you have on him or her.
Very true ma.
You are welcome
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"I appreciate your thoughtful reflections on trust, @presh07. It's unfortunate when trust is broken and your experiences highlight the challenges people face in maintaining trust. Your suggestions on giving second chances with caution and observing changes are valuable insights. Thank you for sharing your perspectives on this important topic.
Kita memiliki pengalaman yang sama, saya juga pernah merasa dikhianati. Mulai saat ini kita harus benar-benar berhati-hati dalam menaruh kepercayaan kepada orang lain
Thank you
Hello @divinelife,
Trust, to me, means relying on someone without fear of betrayal. Unfortunately, in my country, trust is eroding due to rising incidents of betrayal, even among friends and family. I've experienced broken trust when a friend failed to repay a loan on time, causing significant hardship. Repairing trust requires genuine repentance and a gradual rebuilding of faith.
True sir
Hai teman
Kepercayaan yang sudah rusak sangat tidak mungkin bagi kita untuk mempercainya lagi tapi setidaknya bisa diperbaiki dan beri kesempatan sekali lagi supaya memberi ruang bagi mereka yang ingin bertekad berubah.
Saya tahu bagaimana dikhianati seperti yang Anda rasakan, sangat sakit dan pastinya sulit melupakan.
Semoga anda sukses akan kontesnya👌
Thank you
I can imagine the pain of that your friend, that might even be her best friend betraying her. It is in the nature of man to disappoint my dear, I am praying that God should guide us from every friend that is a wolf in sheep clothing. It is a pity. Best of luck
Amen. Thank you very much.
You're welcome dear friend
Saludos amigo.
La confianza es una cualidad emocional,y debemos ver bien donde depositamos está confianza hay personas, que actúan mal son traicionera
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Yes, you can give each other a chance. If the other person remains the same as before, there is no need to maintain this relationship.
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