Marital Statement "For Better or For Worse."
Introduction
Hi beautiful creatures of the world, I bring you a warm greeting from my side. I am very delighted and overwhelmed by the contest organization and a special thanks to the organizer @josepha for his tireless research to bring up this contest topic for steemians to share on and as you read down the post on the above topic, you will find it interesting reading. I want to specially invite @ishayachris, @yakspeace, and @simonnwigwe to participate in this educative contest.
The comment "For better or for worse" is been used mostly in marriage institutions, and I believe that there are so many reasons behind the usage of this statement in the marriage institute, it's a very strong statement that need not to be said anyhow, its a statement that sounds promising till death, its a statement exchanged between sincere lovers but unfortunately, there are a lot of wicked happenings after utterring such statement especially in marriages, I will be answering questions given by the contest organizer for more words and points on the above topic below;
What do you understand by this statement, "for better or worse," in the marriage institution?
The statement "For better for worse" in the marriage institution simply means that the woman gives the man her words and the man also gives her his words and not just words but promises exchange which is mostly done at the altar. They are promising each other to stay together as husbands and wife in good and bad times, in hardship and enjoyment, they will forever be together, fight together, run together and succeed together in both bad and good times I.e for better for worse.
Do you support this moral statement "for better for worse" in the marriage institution during wedding ceremonies? If yes! Or no! Please kindly give reasons for your answers because you might be a helper and problem solver.
I support this statement for better or for worse because every marriage has its bitter part and sweet part. The statement is made because for any reason the marriage's bitter part is approaching, they should both remember that they have promised themselves at the altar to bear every situation together. The bitterness in marriages would always be there until both of them put their hands together to wash every form of bitterness and enjoy only the sweetness part. I agree with the statement because it helps some men and women to endure and learn in their married homes and today they are happy because they have overcomed the necessary things to overcome.
Do you have personal experience suffering from a situation of this kind, or have you heard of it from others?
There have been so many experiences of couples suffering in their new homes. I have come encounter with couples who are just 2 months into marriage and the home is already breaking. The reason for the quarrel is simply because the husband stopped giving her the usual amount he has been giving to her when she was still single🤦♀️Every woman must know that things like this will surely occur, as a man marries you, a little or a lot will change. So, we must expect even the worse and of course, there is always a good part in a person.
If you were to change or encourage/refashion this statement "for better or worse," what would be your options that could reasonably solve the issue, aiming at having peaceful families in general?
This statement has ruined some persons to destruction silently in the name of enduring their promises, if the treatment between a man and a woman is becoming worse, the victim between them should quickly report and not keep silent like our dear sister Osinachy who gave up the ghost in the name of hiding the maltreatment from the husband.
Therefore, If I should fashion the statement "For better or for worse" I will change it to "From better to perfection" I know saying from better to perfection in the alter will of course be a form of promising and also declaring prayer to their new home.
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