Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 53: Parental Enforcement Of Decision on Children
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Hello friends, I gladly welcome you to my article today. I do hope you enjoy every bit of it. It is a great honor to participate in this great contest once again. I would be dropping my thoughts immediately.
Parental guidance is crucial in the upbringing of children today. Children are indeed beautiful gifts from God. Therefore, they should be treated as a treasure, guiding their decisions actions and mora conducts. It is really crucial to have parents influence the decision of there children to a certain extent.
However, when these children are of are or when they turn adults, it is quite expedient that the parents just suggest approach they should take. At that point you must have instilled enough values in those kids to enable them see good from evil. The early values you instill in these kids would make it quite easy for them to follow the right path to life, not withstanding trias and temptations they see on their way growing up.
These times are crucial points, majorly turning points in their lives. The parents have a considerable role to play in making or destroying the future of children. Leading them through the right path is really a thing parents must do. It's quite expedient that during this of deciding a course to study in school, parent role at that point is observation and suggestion.
Importantly, parents must observe their kids properly to see their behavior, hobbies and knees spot there talents where they are good at, most of the time parents just have to ask some questions, throw suggestions and let children glide to success. Marriage is a beautiful thing and parents have to suprvise the decision of their children at that point these children are adults, they can make decisions living there lives must be their priority. Good values they acquired while growing would aid them in choosing the right soulmate, parents role at this point is to give suggestions and experienced instructions
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Parents decision are all a function of literacy and ignorance. No parent would decisively want to mislead a child, but if the parent has no experience in parenthood, they might misguide these children ignorantly. Therefore, misguided decision can be an effect of bad parenthood on these children which could make or destroy their future. I actually believe parents could misguide their children in decision making, it can be ignorantly and most times not decisively, based on varying factors such as ignorance, illitracy and a host of other factors.
I know a friend who always loved watching commentaries on airlines, while we were growing up, he would he papers to build one and drawing aircrafts was his hobby. The aircraft arouse interests in him, he was so engrossed in joining the air force, he wanted to be pilot, to be able to fly these aircrafts too.
Moreso, his parents wanted him to study medicine in college, which was not hi dream, he argued with them as later agreed. He was good with mathematics and engineering courses. He finally got into college and did his parents bidding. He was a outstanding student because he was so book smart. He finally got great grades and during his final year, he started writing scholarship exams to our country. He finally got one with a German airline, it is really a great success for him. He gave his parents the certificate and left following his dreams! Train up your child in the way he should go and when he is old he would not depart out of it.
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