Steem4Accelerator Contest Week57: "What Gender do you prefer your child to be?"
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Hello friends and I gladly welcome you all to my article in this great community. I would be sharing my thoughts on the contest immediately.
Biy child and girl child are both blessings to thr parents in the family, but I feel there are reasons why a particular gender in these children are rated more expensive to train up. Training up a child requires indeed not so easy approaches. Therefore I would suggest we make good approach in training them to avoid them being wayward.
However, the girl child is more expensive yo train. Training up a girl child requires lots of expenses, the girl child is really susceptible to being lured by the pleasures of this world. If you havr a daughter who doesn't get enough from home, she tends to feel the urge to look outside to satisfy her wants and desires else where.
Importantly, picture a scenario where a girl child who doesn't have a phone at 17 years old she tends to get different offers from guys who wants to get to have her as their girlfriend. She sees the need for the phone so badly, and if it is not forthcoming from home, she would tend to follow her desires else where, this may lead to unwanted pregnancy and other negative side effects too which can befall the family.
As an African parent necessity is laid up on me to have a male child. Growing up as kids the male child is seen as the heir to the throne, the name that passed down the lineage to the next generation. The male child is always seeing as the bread winner when the bread winner is no more.
In view of this, I would definitely prefer the male children to the females. Male children are seen as pillars in the family, they protect the family when need arises and it turns out that they are the pride in the family. This is a crucial reason to me too.
Moreso, the girl child is caring and loving in the family no doubt, but the girl child eventually gets married out of the family and in our tradition she leaves the home and caters for her inlaws to the point of bearing their surnames respectively. The male child is who I prefer to have as a parent too.
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From the best of my knowledge the adolescence is characterised by need to explore and learn new things to this effect both gender gets attracted to each other on most times it gets detrimental to the parents eventually.
However, I think the male gender tends to get out of control. The male are known to be stubborn, they tend to disobey orders and flex their muscles when it comes to claiming right in the home.. the quest for power creeps in gently and they end up joining cultism if they are not controlled properly. This is a major problem where some of them end up being killed too or get remanded in police custody facing serious jail time.
On the other hand, the females get attracted to the guys and if their parents are not bringing forth money for upkeep they look to thee guys as source of income. Overall the male child possesses tendencies of getting out of control of they are not well trained or disciplined at that crucial adolescent age.
Well, to an extent I believe the statement is true, the boy child and girl child had almost the same abilities in the 21st century, owing to the fact that technology made it so. There are lots of things which manual labor cannot do again, the world has evolved and the ladies now do what the men could boast of before. The both genders do the same thing equally.
Long before now it was believed that only a man can drive a car but now ladies do so and do that perfectly. Toda women are the center o attraction, they pull stunt at movies, capture criminals in the military and i guess the only defining factor is the gender and sex hormones. To this effect a woman can never be a man.
Does my choice make any difference? I have a daughter and I am happy with that. I don't want to discriminate between them by telling you my choice because both genders are equal and created by God Almighty.
Im glad you shared your thoughts already, it is really a beauty to admire your taste for gender, seeing your ideology really inspired me that the both genders are indeed gifts to humanity
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Excelente participación amigo, niño o niña implican una gran responsabilidad y algo es seguro, ambos son una gran Bendición. Gracias por la invitación, me encanta este concurso, genial.
I'm glad you stopped by and I really appreciate the fat that you love the both gender alike, thanks once again for coming out here to share your thoughts on this article.
Hello respected sir.
How sad to read that you are forced to choose a boy, but both boys and girls are important and from what I have seen it generates the same expenses.
Success and more success.
Many blessings..🙏🏻
Hi.. I'm glad you respected my opinion, it is from a place of upholding cultural tenets and not a personal choice. It is how we are raised in this part of the world and I'm glad you stopped by my my article my dear friend.
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You're absolutely right in noting the significant changes in gender roles and abilities in the 21st century. Technology has played a key role in leveling the playing field between boys and girls. Women now excel in various fields that were traditionally dominated by men. The evolution of society and technology has empowered both genders to pursue and succeed in a wide range of activities and professions. While there are inherent biological differences between men and women, the capabilities and achievements of individuals are not solely determined by gender.
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Hello friends,
I'm glad you studied my article deeply, dropping a valid point after picking out bullet points from the write up, thanks so much for the great review and highly recommended feedback on my article. It is a motivation to do more indeed. Cheers to you my dear friend.
Hey, moderator, how are you doing? You praise this article into heaven! Where is your big fat upvote?
You should read the comment section as well.
Please, pay attention to the hashtags!
Not one out of the first 4 has anything to do with the topic of the post. You should point this out, just like typos!
A good day to you.
¡Holaaa amigo!🤗
Aunque todavía no tengo hijos, estoy totalmente convencida en que lo importante no es el género sino, que nazca saludable porque, una niña o un niño, es la bendición más grande que Dios y la vida nos pueden dar para extender nuestra familia.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚
Indeed children are gifts from God and we must appreciate their existence in one possible way or the other, this is indeed a grea principle that should keep guiding out lives too.
"Wow, what a thought-provoking article! 😊 I love how you're sparking interesting discussions about parenting and childhood expenses in our community. Your perspectives on both boys and girls being blessings, but also having different challenges, are super insightful. 👏 I agree that girls can be more expensive to train due to societal pressures and temptations. 💁♀️ As for the statement "what a boy can do a girl can do better," I think it's refreshing to see how women have proven themselves in various fields, shattering stereotypes! 🔥 Great job sharing your thoughts, and I'm excited to hear from others in our community! 🤗 Don't forget to invite more members to join the contest! 🎉"
Warm regards, I'm indeed glad you studied my article and came up with really interesting facts as highlighted in my article. It is indeed a thing of beauty to see how our society has evolved over time. I appreciate your feedback on my article and cheers to you my dear friend.
What is a BIY child is it something new? AI or?
You don't sound like someone who sees a child as a blessing, but you have made it clear that you are against a certain gender, which makes it unpleasant to read you!
We do not train children, but dogs, horses or birds of prey that we use for hunting.
Nobody believed that only men could drive cars that is what a few men made up just like women are bad at maths.
"Toda women" are a certain tribe?
A tip: speak for yourself! We are all different, families are different. It is also wise not to show pictures of white families because what you wrote is the opposite of how those families think, raise their children and live!
I appreciate the constructive criticism, about the highlighted expressions above they are typo errors as we all know and not AI as you claimed.. This is a contest and everyone is allowed to freely share not restricting your emotions, I dont see why my ideas are being tackled.
Overall I appreciate your effort to spot these. About the pictures, the rule says copyright free images and that's exactly what I used in sharing my expressions. My tenses are not what you want to hear maybe, but I'm communicating to a large audience and it's best I try to make my emotions clear to the general public.
Conclusively, I stressed that in my culture men were believed to drive cars but today women blah blah... So please don't paint my article black, this is no form of gender discrimination or racial segregation. I follow the rules of the contest unless otherwise stated with facts! My post was reviewed by the moderator, so please be properly guided. Warm regards once again.
It is not wrong to check on typos to post something good or?
Sharing your opinion is fine but do not complain if what you wrote is misunderstood because of your typos, the choice of words and the photos you use! This all together is part of how you promote youself, your ideas, and level of creativity.
Feel free to mute the comment or see what you can do to benefit. Readers are not you and read with different eyes, havedifferent backgrounds.
If you write something good they will might like it, comment and upvote you more than once. A great day. Super you wrote a long comment not the usual bkah blah blah!
It took a bit to make you comment and say something meaningful but here you are! Finally, you wrote something worth upvoting!
Well done, you made Team 2 smile, we wish you a great day, keep it this way and do not forget to engage/comment. You are read.
Pleasures are all mine👍