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EVERYBODY GO CHOP BREAKFAST



This is. very popular saying as most people are victims of heartbreak before getting it right. It remains prevalent in the sample populace of young adults. Therefore I would be dropping my entry with sumptuous views on the topic of discuss immediately.


What is your thought and perspective about the statement, do you agree with the statement.



I am a preacher of love and I must say the statement is really a bitter reality because as a lover you remain vulnerable and prone to the syndrome of getting a break-up, due to the fact that you are "love-sick" yearning for love, which in turn exposes you to heartbreak.

In other words, you remain a slave of love always falling on the shoulder of your partner posing the risk of heartbreak. It remains a possession, an influence and a subtle bondage. Once you are in love there are high odds that you would get heartbreak because no condition remains constant. This makes the statement very true and quite realistic to an audience.


Do you think this statement is true or misleading



I do think the statement is very true and concise. If you have a lover, there must always be a time in which you get fed up and feel like ending the relationship.

Red flags in relationship usually cause break-up in relationship as we all know. Therefore it is strongly expedient that the statement is strongly valid.


Do you have any personal experience or from someone you know to back up your take on the statement? Do share with us.



pexels-atc-comm-photo-3732384.jpgsourceheart break is inevitable in relationships.

It was a sunny day Irene accidentally bumped into Bryan at the school library the rest was history. They stired into each other's soul through eye contact. It happened for split seconds and all of a sudden they started stammering and stuttering, acting all clumsy and it looked quite awkward. Importantly, a soft spot germinated that day in their hearts.

Moreso, Bryan was always there for Irene as they eloped, very caring too. The "Mr. Nice guy" always there fore her. Things where getting alot fun. He was always taking her out for dinner dates and various romantic adventures. After some weeks he asked her to be his girlfriend and she happily obliged after one of their romantic dinners too.
pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3756623.jpgsourceromantic dates, nice place to ask a lady out.

Furthermore, 3 months into the relationship she told her friends that she stopped feeling the vibes and everything she once had for him was gone. Her major red flag was that he was too cozy and very inquisitive laughing over jokes that are barely funny all in a bid to tickle her fancy. She was planning to serve him breakfast. This was a guy that changed her live gifting her an iPhone 12 pro on her birthday and showering her with lots of gifts on Valentine's day too. It was really a big one.

Additionally, Bryan unaware of her plans asked her shopping at a mall on a Saturday evening. She agreed immediately and that was when she planned to end it. After everything they had nice times and he decided they enter the rolercoaster to have a nice swing. He bought ice cream and coldstone too. At the cliff of the sky he tried kissing her, that was where she served him breakfast. She said she was done and never liked him and wanted to go home immediately. He was on the air disoriented and almost cried. When they came down she left him there. Bryan was served breakfast in the sky! it's indeed it's very funny to me but painful.
pexels-alex-green-5699696.jpgsourceBryan given heartbreak after being so nice

It pained him so much because she said she had a surprise for him at the top of the rollercoaster, which made him a anticipate lots of pleasant surprises too. It remains a painful tale to such nice guy. It is evident that ladies in this part of the world love toxic guys the bad boys and have less interest in the nice guys. She earned him that she never wanted to see him again and that it was officially over between them.


What advice do you give to your readers in line with the topic in question



Guard your heart jealously, you deserve the best and do not ever let anyone stop you from being the best version if yourself. It is indeed a great thing to love but do so with moderation, to avoid being a victim of heartbreak.

It is expedient that you also be smart when loving someone. Do not love because someone anyhow. Keep high standards, do not be a cheap commodity so that when relationship sets in you would be valued so much. In summary love wisely and do not be a victim of heartbreak. Salient point remains love in moderation.

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 last year 

Okay, I am not familiar with this saying at all.
Just shows, you are never too old to learn. (•ิ‿•ิ)
Your advice of guarding your heart is so valuable but yah, so often our hearts doesn't listen to our minds.
Good luck for the contest and thanks for the invite.

 last year 

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Excellent write up...Red flags are majorly the sole aim of breakups

 last year 

Thanks for your smart comments. I appreciate you for your time

 last year 

Although the statement is really bitter, but due to the things that happen in our world today, I think everyone will surely witness it because no one is perfect and we are living in a world of pride and bribery

 last year 

Well said my friend. Thank you for valid comment #steem-on

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