Shattered; The Impact of Broken Promises

blessingogah-1 (62)Member /verifiedin Steem4Nigeria • 9 months ago

INTRODUCTION

A broken promise is a promise that is not kept, either intentionally or unintentionally. It's a violation of trust, and it can have serious consequences for relationships and for the person who was affected by the broken promise. Broken promises can be caused by many different factors, such as a lack of communication, unrealistic expectations, or unforeseen circumstances. Sometimes, a broken promise is the result of a misunderstanding or miscommunication.

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What is a promise? Give three (3) common reasons why promises are broken

A promise is a commitment to do or not do something, usually made to another person. Promises are often made with the intention of keeping them, but sometimes they are broken. There are many reasons why promises may be broken, but some common ones include:

Changing circumstances or priorities that make it difficult or impossible to keep the promise.
Lack of communication or understanding about the promise or its importance.
Lack of follow-through or follow-up on the promise.
Lack of motivation or willingness to keep the promise.
Lack of ability or resources to keep the promise.

Have you ever experienced a broken promise? How did it make you feel?

Yes I have experienced a broken promised several times and that's the reason why I barely trait people. I don't put my hope on anyone to avoid disappointment. I felt disappointed, hurt, betrayed, and angry. I also felt let down and lose trust in the person who broke the promise. I also felt sad that the promise was broken, it gave me negative pictures of those persons.

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How do you handle broken promises? Do you confront the person or let it go?

It really depends on the situation and the relationship you have with the person who broke the promise. Some people may prefer to confront the person directly, expressing their disappointment and discussing how to move forward. Others may decide to let it go and not dwell on the broken promise. The most important thing is to consider what is best for your own mental and emotional well-being, and to make a decision that feels right for you.

In my case, I will approach the person and express my disappointment to them. They might give me a good reason why they broke their promise, why they gave me a high up and then let me down. Although people might make promises and not fulfill them because of one situation or another. Sometimes we make plans and then circumstances helps us change them, it could be thesame reason why they couldn't fulfill their promises.

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Do you believe that some promises are meant to be broken? Why or why not?

I think it depends on the type of promise being made. There are some promises that are meant to be kept no matter what, like a promise to always be there for a loved one or to always tell the truth. But there are other types of promises, like those related to plans or goals, that may need to be broken if circumstances change. Sometimes, breaking a promise can be the best thing to do.

It's also important to consider the intention behind the promise. Sometimes, people make promises without really thinking through whether they can keep them. Other times, they may make a promise with the best of intentions, but then things change and they're unable to follow through. So it's not always as simple as saying that all promises should be kept or that some are meant to be broken. There are a lot of factors to consider, and every situation is unique.

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What steps can be taken to rebuild trust after a promise has been broken?

Rebuilding trust after a promise has been broken can be a long and difficult process. One of the first steps is to apologize sincerely and take responsibility for the broken promise. It's also important to make a commitment to not break any more promises in the future. Another step is to show that you're making an effort to change your behavior, and to follow through on any promises you do make. Also, trust can be rebuilt by being honest, transparent, and open with the person who was affected by the broken promise.

In addition to the steps I mentioned above, it's also important to give the person who was affected by the broken promise some time and space to process their emotions. They may be feeling hurt, betrayed, or disappointed, and they may need some time to heal. Patience and understanding are key during this process. Finally, it's important to remember that rebuilding trust takes time, and that it won't happen overnight. It's a gradual process that requires effort and commitment from both parties.

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