Life Reflection

INTRODUCTION

When I talk about My Perfect Self, is all about figuring out the best version of myself. For me, It's like creating a blueprint for the person you want to be – with the importance, qualities, and purposes that make you genuinely happy. This journey is about self-discovery and becoming the person you desire to be. The journey is about me staying satisfied. The journey is about me being proud of my features no matter what. The journey is about me seeing myself as perfect even when others don't see it.

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Have you ever felt someone is better than you are? If yes, in what aspect?

Truth is, while I recognize that I've got areas where I am better than lots of people, I've felt people in the same many ways are better than me too. I've always wanted to be this great fashion expert, singer, and successful businesswoman with so much finesse. A couple of times I've met successful women and I just wish I were them. But as the saying goes you can't be everything or have it all.

One thing I can't forget so easily is the fact that everyone is on their journey so comparing yourself to others is raring productive. Sometimes instead of feeling someone is doing better than me, I focus on my success and progress and and appreciate my efforts. No matter how big or small the achievement is, I'm going to appreciate it.

Instead of being envious of other people, this is what I would do, I try to use their motivation to build myself, achieve my goals, and put more effort rather than allowing it to hold me back. I don't know how to give and I'm always moved by my genuine success story, so when I hear stories of people's achievements, I want to do better for myself as the journey is all men to themselves.

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Mention 3 personalities or features of your life you don't like and would love to change

There is absolutely nothing I'm not proud of in my life. I'm wonderfully and beautifully made. Any day, I stand in front of the mirror, I just say God you did a great job because how can I be so beautiful? It seems the word " we were made in the image of God is mostly applicable to me. My features and personalities are perfect. Every part of my body is perfectly made and I'm grateful for that.

I have a friend, who is always complaining about his height because he has a bow leg and he wishes he had the funds to get it corrected and maybe stretch his limb to make him taller because according to him, women love 7" feet guys. Then I look at him and say, just have money, my dear, nobody will care about your leg.

You are so cute and nothing is wrong with you. Don't make God look like he doesn't do a great job on you. Some people were born crippled and some are deaf, dumb, and blind, so my guy give thanks to God for you. And he went silent, people are going through worse situations than you, so be grateful for the shape of your body.

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Do you think it's healthy thinking or reflecting on your Imperfections and mistakes?

Not reflecting on one's life is one of the most unhealthy habits in the 21st century. One has to sit down and reflect on one's life to know what's being done rightly and wrongly. This helps to reshape how one should interact with his or her immediate environment, live appropriately, and advance one's material reality.

I will also say, that this type of reflection helps to create a plan of action for avoiding making the same mistake in the future. It is also very beneficial for personal growth and healthy development. This type of reflection is a tool for a healthy lifestyle. Even the great Tony Elumelu of UBA bank and a business tycoon has posted pictures of him reflecting. As rich and influential as he could be, he reflects, and I think that is one reason that has been helping him grow.

Imagine waking up every day from your bed with no prayer, no reflection, and the next thing is you pick up your phone and start pressing. How do you even intend to grow with this kind of attitude? Healthy reflection and thinking shouldn't be about beating yourself up or dwelling on past mistakes, instead, it should be about identifying your areas of weakness and finding ways to improve. Healthy reflection should be something you do every day as a human and in this new year.

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If you were allowed by God to change your look will you maintain them?

Honestly, I don't even need God in this very case but all I need is money (Ego). Science has made it possible for us so we can enhance our beauty and features by gaining power and self-esteem. If I had the funds, I would just buy a lot of designer Beauty whether we like it or not is a social currency. And while I am not ugly per se, I won't mind enhancements too😂

My duty as a lady is to maintain beauty, I maintain beauty for a living. I can never be caught unfresh. I used to tell my friends that I loved myself so much. I'm proud of every part of my body. I don't need to do BBL to have big a$$ because I have it in excess, I'm a perfect human and if I'm allowed by God to do anything about my look, I will Just tell him, my lord, you did a great and perfect job on me, give me the funds to continue to maintain the beauty.

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In conclusion
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