Money and Marriage.
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Hello friends , I am @aviral123 from India.God bless you all . I am going to take participate in this beautiful contest which is organised by @manuelhooks.
This contest have been a very interesting topic.Money and marriage both are important. In simple words if you have lot of money but you are not married, how will you use money, how will you enjoy money with your family. And vice versa if you have You do not have money and you are married, but you are not able to enjoy that marriage because you do not have enough money.
Is money central to family happiness? If you think it is, please explain how but if you think it's not, please tell us what could be. |
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According to me money is the center of family happiness. Nowadays the desires of people have increased a lot. And to fulfill those desires, we need enough money. If we do not have money then our whole life will be spent in worry. Nowadays money is so important that people do not recognize relationships.
But it is also important to have love in the family along with money. It is necessary to have money, but sometimes the situation comes in such a way that if the whole family supports, then even those adverse situations can be won. Both love and money are necessary in the family. Because if we love someone, we cannot see him in pain now.
What are some common money related issues among couples in your area? Does this have any cultural undertone? |
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Nowadays money related problems are arising among the couples in the society. Because nowadays the standard of living has increased. People are living a life of show off. Nowadays people do all this by watching TV, like makeup, online shopping, eating food in hotels. Due to which if you do not have enough money, then you will not be able to spend in it and your budget will deteriorate. Due to which money related problems arise.
Yes, it has had a cultural impact. In earlier times, the daughter-in-law used to keep the pallu in the sari. She used to think that she is the daughter-in-law. But in today's era of modernity, the pallu has disappeared from the head. There is no difference between the daughter-in-law and the daughter, who is the daughter-in-law and who is the daughter. .
In modernity, people are forgetting their culture.
How will you deal with a situation where a spouse feels that Your money is our money but my money is my money. |
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This is a very difficult problem. Where you consider the money of the other person as your money, but do not consider your money as that of the person in front. It is very difficult to deal with this problem, because this problem starts from small differences and takes a big form.
Such differences arise in the relationship between husband and wife. There is bound to be a fight there. If you claim the money of your husband or wife, then give this right to your husband and wife also that your money is also their money.
The relationship between husband and wife is a very loveable and supportive relationship. It runs on love and trust. There is a relationship of equality here. No one has any right to humiliate each other. Husband and wife are two wheels of the car, which have to walk equally, those who do not understand this spoil their relationship and remain unhappy throughout their life.
In your opinion, is a wife obligated to submit her salary to her husband at the end of each month? Or should it be the other way round. |
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Both husband and wife are not bound to deposit their salary to the other at the end of the month. Both husband and wife together run the house, take the responsibility of the house. In a house where both husband and wife work and earn money, they share the responsibilities and expenses of the house among themselves.
And at the end of the month, see how much savings they have. Then whether to put it in the bank or invest it somewhere, it is determined on their own wish. But no one is bound to give money to anyone. Where there is a situation of compulsion, mine and yours starts there. and love and affection fade away.
Why is money such a big issue in marriage lately? what measures do you [or will you] take to mitigate this problem. |
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In today's marriages, the trend of showing off has increased a lot. Earlier people used to get married by putting up tents in front of their house. But now big results, hotels are booked. Due to which marriage becomes very expensive. Nowadays, designer clothes are different for different functions in marriage. The trend of theme clothes has increased a lot. People are spending more on such things as pre wedding shoot.
Anyway, money has been a big issue in weddings from the beginning. But nowadays the expenses have increased a lot. People spend more because of posting their photos in social media.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this contest topic. You've provided your own reasons why you said money should be center but have you tried balancing up life aspects in a marriage? Can money buy character? Nope. Most family heads consider making money to be prior that they live life that makes the family heartbroken. Imagine a man, because of money he barely have time for his wife and family. As time goes on, she'll be tired of the marriage irrespective of how wealthy you are and what you can afford. Anyways, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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