My Neighborhood Watch #98- Reporting Events Around us
Okpulumobo waterside bridge in Aba
A Young woman is Saved From Suicide Attempt in Aba River
Suicide is that intentional act that a person takes to effect or cause his or her own death. Suicide did not just begin today as it has been happening over time before now. People tend to take their lives for various reasons that they feel they could not bear.
Life could be so hard to people that the only option they may choose to take, is to take their own lives. According to World Health Organization's (WHO) reports on global suicide rate, has it that over 700,000 people die yearly as a result of taking their own lives. This calls for more attention and efforts made to prevent suicide attempts.
Okpulumobo waterside bridge in Aba
ln an attempt to take her own life in a popular waterside at Okpulumobo Aba in Abia state, an unidentified young woman was saved by passersby. An eye witness sources reports that they saw the young lady who was slowly walking towards the river river as if she has swimming skills. After few minutes standing, she immediately threw herself into the river as she realized that people were beginning to suspect her intentions. As soon soon as she deeped herself into the river and could not make any attempt to swim, it became obvious to the passersby that the lady is on a suicide mission.
As she has gotten drowned into the river, People started shouting on their voices. This drew the attention of few men around the area who know how to swim. The men quickly dived into the river and started searching for her. Luckily, they found her still alive and pulled her out from the river safely.
Okpulumobo waterside bridge in Aba
Having been pulled out from the river, they pressed her down to make sure that the water in her body was gushed out immediately. She was then taken to the hospital for further treatment. But on a sad note, the hospital she was rushed to, refused to admit her to commence treatment. People frowned at this bad attitude coming from this hospital. They now quickly rushed her to another hospital and at this time, she was admitted and the doctors and nurses commenced treatment immediately.
This is a question ringing in the heart of everyone who was around the scene of the incident. People are really going through a lot of things in this life. Life is hard, difficult, painful, these are some few words that could describe what people are passing through I this life. But whatever negative experience that one may be passing through, does it justify the decision for one to take a way his or her own life?
There are several conditions that may make a person to take the decision of taking his or her own life. Some of these conditions or factors may be:
Depression
Aggression
Chronic pains
Abuse of substance
Emotional abuse
History of past suicide attempts
Feeling of inadequacy
Disappointment
and many other factors that may contribute to suicide attempts.
Okpulumobo waterside bridge in Aba
Before one commits suicide, there may be some signs that may be displayed or noticed about the person's behavior or attitudes. Some of the signs according mental health experts, may include:
Expression of feelings of no reason to live
Constant or high intake of substances like drugs or alcohol
Isolation from friends, families or loved ones
The feeling of hopelessness
Unprecedented loneliness
Anxiety etc
Okpulumobo waterside bridge in Aba
Although it is not entirely possible to stop suicide in the society, there certain actions we can take to prevent this rising ugly trend. These actions includes:
Be observant about the mental health of the people around around you
Create emergency lines and services to trace suicide attempts
Understanding the factors or signs of suicide
Be there for people who need to be helped and listened to
Removing harmful objects such as guns, substances from aggressive persons
Be watchful on how people express their emotions
Help struggling persons to seek mental health services
People are going through tough times in their lives which others may not know. Who knows what this young lady has passed through to the point of wanting to take her own life? Loss of properties, broken relationships, disappointment and other painful experiences could be the reason one may think of taking their own lives.
We should pay attention and become more observant to how people around around us behave, that they may need us to support them. While we may not be able be able to notice the signs of suicide on time, showing people love and care or actions of kindness would help anyone with suicide thought to drop any of such intentions.
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There are many times we feel this ways but subsequently, dieing doesn't change anything, the afterlife may be more fierced that now according to my believe, if i can't eat 3 square meal a day i know for sure that one fateful day i will so why commit suicide, as a man i have gone through a lot and suicide can never be include as a relieveful option.
As i live i achieve even more. Thanks for sharing this info with us
I appreciate your wonderful interest by going through the post. Sometimes, life doesn't seem to be fair with us. Things may not be working the way we planed it this could be frustrating. If not carefully handled, one may come to conclude that life is meaningless to continue living it.
Thanks you friend for your interesting comments.
You are welcome brother
People have been through and survived much more and much worse situations therefore suicide isn't because of the situation or condition but because people allow that situation or condition to get to their "heart"
Proverbs 4:23
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."(NIV)
"Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life."(KJV)
"Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life." (NLT)
Thanks for sharing and the mention
Thank you so much for finding time to come to my blog to give your interesting piece of advice.
The mind is so powerful that when right thoughts go into, it could transform a person's life. When it is filled with the wrong thoughts, it could cause destruction.
These two perspectives reflects the contents of what is stored in our mind.
Thanks for input.