Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 109: Letting Go.

Greetings from my end, hoping you all are doing great I am highly delighted and motivated to participate in this contest organised by @steem4nigeria , titled "LETTING GO" it's indeed an interesting topic to behold.

✅What do you understand by the subject matter; Letting Go

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Well, to my understanding letting go simply means forgetting completely about something or someone who doesn't make impact to you or moving on without that particular thing that seemed to be unforgettable. Though sometimes, it might be hard to let go and moving on , but whenever you think about how that particular thing is beginning to affects your emotions, habits and some areas of your life, one will tend to forget that thing or person immediately. I know most times when one is letting go, he or she might not forget the incidence or story behind it, but whenever you want to let go make sure you choose to release it's negative hold on you.

✅Have you had any experience where you had to let go of something?

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Oh yes, I had several experience on different occasions, but this particular one really got me both emotionally, mentally and otherwise. I had a guy I was dating for 3 years, we really loved each other and understood each other too, then subsequently the table turned and things changed, he was acting strange at some point even when I confront him he'll say nothing. I had to make an underground investigation on him and shockingly, I heard he has a baby mama somewhere else, it really broke me into pieces but I had to confront him, but funny enough he denied it even with the evidence proved right, I wasn't comfortable anymore looked like I wasn't safe with him at all. So therefore, for the sake of my emotions and sanity I had to let go immediately, though I hurts badly 😔😔.

✅Why and how do you know it was time to let go

Why I knew it was time to let go was when I realized I wasn't really comfortable around him and that makes it look like we're building the relationship on lies and deceit. It's better to let go than to hold on to toxicity that will harm you some day, deep within me I know I was really hurt that I was thinking of staying back, but unfortunately I noticed I was faking and pretending to be fine meanwhile something is killing me slowly, and after letting go I felt that inner peace within me .

Thanks for stopping by and reading through my post. I'm inviting: @josepha, @ruthjoe , and @patjewell to join this contest.

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