Greetings ma’am
Thanks for the invite, having read through your post, so must agree that I totally buy your idea on keeping quiet during an argument as a way for forestall peace. Two wrongs they say can never make a right. Hence I recently started choosing to keep quiet while I hear the other party out and then I will calmly present my own case and we try to reach a consensus. It’s better that way that to try and rise our voices at the same time and hence leading to more arguments. I wish you success in the contest and do have a great day.