**What happens when we live in separate rooms.**

Getting married someday is one thing I have always prayed for. Even though I am not married yet, I have envisioned what my typical home will look like when I get married. There are some boundaries I will set but above all, I want a simple, happy and beautiful home.

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This doesn’t seem like a good idea to me. I don’t buy the idea of couples staying in different rooms. Sleep is one of the most important things we need as human. Sleep puts us at peace and if we sleep beside our partners, we have the tendency of having a longer lifespan and it increases or boosts our health.

At the same time, as couples, we need that bond. We need to sleep beside each other, touch each other, make love so we can become more intimate. And sleeping together reduces the rate of fight or quarrels in the marriage. So sleeping in separate rooms will only reduce their intimacy and I’m never going to allow that in my marriage.

Yes! It has to be discussed. There are some people who come from homes where their parents sleep in the same room but the other person whose parents sleep in separate rooms may feel the partner is being clingy which may not make any sense to me.

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So, this has to be talked about because uncertainty about this is likely to ruin a marriage so it is one of the things that has to be looked into and talked about before getting married.

I come from a home where my parents do things together, wear same clothes and even share the same room so I’m used to that typical kind of home and I’ve seen how beneficial it can be to marriages and that’s what I want for myself as well.

I can’t count how many times I saw my parents quarrel in the night and end the rift in the morning which is as a result of sleeping together. Sex plays a major role in marriages especially impromptu sex or the ones that is unplanned.

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For my marriage, I want a home where my man and I will be sleeping in the same room. That’s the kind of home where I grew up in and that’s what I want for myself.

I will love to invite @saintkelvin1 @chilaw and @vishwara to join me on this contest.

Cc; @ruthjoe