Welcome my friend,
I believe that influencing is for the people who has talent by birth and hard work. We all know about Ronaldo and Messi. Despite of Messi having the Talent by birth and the speed of sky but when you see Ronaldo you only notice one thing .His hard work.
With hard work you can achieve perfection and make your dreams come true whether influencing people or getting success any other parts of life.
Thank you so much.