SEC - S9W6: " My Biggest Challenge "

😲What's your biggest challenge?

The biggest challenges I've experienced since getting to know the woman I want to make my wife and the work I've put into getting my relationship to continue as an engagement are complex and require great care. Here are some common problems that I may have faced and I'm looking for a workaround to make the problem fine in the following ways:

Effective and honest communication is key in any healthy relationship. If I have a challenge in communicating with my future wife it is very important to find ways to improve that communication. Make an effort to listen carefully, convey my thoughts and feelings clearly, and understand your partner's perspective and needs. Engage in productive and open conversations, and don't be afraid to raise issues that may be difficult.

If my partner and I come from different cultures or backgrounds, there may be challenges in understanding and respecting those differences. It's important to learn about each other's culture and values, and find a middle ground that brings both sides together. With mutual respect and understanding, I can build a solid foundation for a relationship.

Every relationship is bound to face conflict. It is important to face problems with a cool head and try to find win-win solutions. Don't avoid or delay resolving issues, but also allow time and space for both parties to reflect before making important decisions.

😦Tell us how you got over it?

the way I solve the problem when the relationship is advanced and is at the end point and as follows:

Open and honest communication: It is important to have open and honest communication with your partner. Share thoughts, feelings, and concerns clearly and with mutual respect. Listen attentively when your partner is talking, and don't be afraid to bring up difficult issues. Good communication will help improve understanding and increase intimacy in the relationship.

Empathy and understanding Try to see the situation from the partner's perspective. Empathizing and trying to understand our partner's feelings, needs, and wants This helps create a sense of understanding and trust in one another. When we can understand our partner's perspective and can find a solution that combines the interests of both.

😇What advice can you give us from your experience?

some suggestions and experiences in overcoming small and big problems in relationships and so on.

Don't let small problems become big Sometimes small problems can become big if not handled properly. If a small problem arises, immediately talk to the person and find a solution together before the problem grows and affects the problem as a whole.

Pick the right time and place to talk When dealing with more serious issues, it's important to choose the right time and place to talk. Choose a moment when both are calm and there are no distractions. This will allow us to focus on the problem and give each other our full attention.

that's all I can share about my experience, and hopefully it can be useful for me personally and also for all of us.

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Best regards @fajrulakmal99