Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

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Negligence in a Family means total failure of responsibility from the parents to a child such a child experiences emotional instability shelter clothes food and meaning of green upbringing is missing in such a child's life parental guidance and love a child that is being neglected in a family grow up with a stigma in a heart that creates a vacuum of hatred in such a child's mind

if care is not taken such children grow up to become terrorists in the community because they have been neglected and there is no one to show them love and guide them in the right steps to follow so they pick up the pieces of their lives and try to fix it themselves in which such pieces cannot be fixed complete and the missing part create hatred in them,

In my case I don't know if I should call it negligent or abused because I have lived with my uncle right from childhood and I was mistreated in that home I feel as if I was an orphan sometimes, I have to eat in the bathroom because of fears I am hungry but I cannot get food from the house that will satisfy me and if the neighbor render help to me I will still be beating and to an extent that

I used to eat the bottom part of any kind of food just to survive, I walked barefooted long distances in the dry season and there was nowhere to run because my parents were away from me so I don't know if it was negligent or child abuse,

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Yes I know of children that have been neglected by their parents a woman left her marital home leaving behind 3, 6, and 10 years old children she left them at the mercy of God and each time I set my eyes on those children, I feel pity for them there both parents are alive but they are living in as orphanage this life is something else

Yes negligent affects those children a lot they hardly associate with other kids because they are always dirty, they are left behind when it comes to education, and when they are affected with skin disease there is no one to take care of them, when their clothes are dirty no one washes the clothes for them, leaving the children under the mercy of their father practically means that they become orphan

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because some fathers are more or less alive or dead, mother negligence is a deadly weapon to any child's life because mothers have 95% of the care for children when it comes to men they provide food for the families but showing love and putting children right and keeping them clean giving them food at the appropriate showing of affection, know when the child get sick is the mother he doesn't know how comes about the feeding at the final stage

My advice to those parent is that they should sit back and rethink about their children's life and happiness their education and future is in their hands and any mistake can affect the kids to the end of life if God does not intervene some of them that stage of lead them to bad friends and get killed, so if the parents should live up to their responsibility such act could not occur in the first place parent should be ready to face their challenge together with their family the children price is in there hands

It depends on the kid's age if they are small at the tender stage it means my advice is of no use to them because any advice that I will give to a kid of a tender age needs actions and support from the giver of the advice because they can't make use of my advice now, all that is in there mind is how they will be able to eat for the day, the world right now is about who do you know before you can get help,

for an average of 15 years if you have been neglected at that stage of life I think you can face the world with courage because there are many positive ways that one can survive at that stage on his own, you should be courageous always focusing on the positive side don't let your esteem to eat you up thinking that your parents have neglected you

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Instead of joining the Bad Guys and useless your life, you should build yourself and put your parents to shame, I have seen children who make it on their own even at the age of 9 they become Hustler from washing dishes and surviving from sweeping people compound and earning money from there they meet a helper that becomes their parents and show them love that they have never received from their parents

and they become great personalities in the community earn a good living and their parents return after which to ask for forgiveness life is a scenario you can't predict tomorrow it's always pregnant it can give birth to anything good or bad hold on to your faith and never give up on yourself God that help all the kids he will still stretch his hands to help you and build your future even without your parents support stay strong and keep pushing there are good story to be told in the future ahead.

I will cross my fingers here till we meet with you again I will be glad if these friends of mine will participate in the contest, @ruthjoe and @goodybest.

Thanks for your time I'm @vickyson.