My Two Greatest Flaws And My Two Greatest Virtues By @vickydear

Good afternoon my lovely friends, I believe all of us are doing well, I'm happy to participate in this case contest, so my thanks goes to @alejos7ven who took time to initiate this contest.

As a human we are all flawed in one way or another and it is very often that we easily recognize flaws in others but we can still see them in ourselves and work on it along with other people and then feel better about ourselves.

Flaws are those negative or undesirable quality in a person that affects him /her or others in a detrimental way,it is a fault,weakness or mistake that we make especially when something is happening or that causes things to be imperfect

MY TWO GREATEST FLAWS

• ARGUMENT:

I have always found myself arguing just for the sake of argument.and I can argue for Africa. Sometimes I find it enjoyable to argue and I always found myself in this situation constantly that I have argument in which I end up being loud to make a point so I am simply argumentative, because of this my flaws people avoid talking to me but I realized that I should choose my argument wisely and it be on something important and that constant argumentation is a form of being arrogance so I try giving other people a room to be right.

I am not too hard on myself about flaws so I forgive myself and also be willing to make changes.

• GULLIBILITY:

I am so gullible. I easily belief that something is true without proof, when it isnt. So people deceive me it happened because I assume that most people should act in honest and also in a genuine way. For example when dealing with my customers I always believed what ever they said, I can remember how one of my come and deceived me and carry my goods for credit and she did not stop at that, the following day she came again and asked me to help her with money that that she will clear all her dept with me that week end and I easily believe her and help her, hmmmmm, for one year now I did not even see her face again. So I often easily persuaded to believe others without proper proof and also pay attention to what people are saying and asking.

MY TWO GREATEST VIRTUE

Virtue can be defined as those quality that can make a person morally good.it is a morally good behavior. or behavior that shows high moral standard. We can develop virtue through practice and also through learning.they are habits that once it is acquired they becomes person characters.

• COMPASSIONATE

I am so sympathetic, pity and so concerned when I see someone suffering and misfurtunes.
I have a very strong feelings for others and desire to help them free from their suffering. Compassion help connect me with people.
Because I am compassionate I can mend my relationships and move on while I foster emotional intelligences and well being.compassion simply make me kind and friendly in the presence of difficulty.and it offers me approach that is differ from the turning away that we always do.

• SELF-CONTROL:

I have the ability to control myself, my desire and my emotions especially when i face difficult situation. This virtue of mine help to stop doing things that are not in my interest. I can manage my behavior in order to achieve my goals and i always have positive outcome,i always remain calm and not show my emotions even when I am excited or angry.
I always do what I needs not my wants. I do not follow the crowd.

I am inviting @emmybless ,@iddy, and @eddyvic to join in this Contest

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