club5050 | 5 Ways to deal with stubborn children

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At the meeting in this post, I want to convey a lot of things that we need to share here and of course to be able to know things that we don't necessarily know about life around the world of our children.

As for the things that I will describe this time about how to EDUCATE HARD HEADING CHILDREN, this is very interesting in my opinion for me to discuss in this post so that we know each other about the things we must do in dealing with stubborn children,

There are 5 ways to educate stubborn children that you need to know, namely:

1.TRY TO LISTEN TO CHILDREN'S OPINIONS

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The first way we do to educate a stubborn child is by listening to the child's opinion and wanting to know what the child wants. This will form a communication between the child and the parent. It is very important to have communication when dealing with a child who is stubborn and has to go both ways.

If it is the child who must always listen to us, then we must also hear his opinion, not only forbidding the child continuously, even if this is done it will make him more stubborn and like to argue as long as his wishes can be fulfilled.

2.DISCUSSION

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Discussion in dealing with stubborn children is a powerful way for parents, because by conducting discussions and negotiations and bargaining will be able to soften the mind and character of the stubborn child, this can also show not to always refuse the child's request but also to be able to make judgments. and train children in making decisions.

3.UNDERSTAND CHILDREN'S WAY TO THINK

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In this case, of course we as parents, it will be very important in understanding the mindset of a stubborn child, because with this we will also know very well his form and attitude in doing things and how that makes him often different in his point of view.

By understanding the stubborn mindset of children, the closer we get to getting to know our children, the better we will deal with children, including in educating their stubborn nature.

4.NEVER FORCE

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Forcing a stubborn child will actually like to rebel, even this is the wrong behavior in educating a stubborn child, and instead he will do things that he should not do.

This is what forms a conflict, this is a common characteristic of stubborn children.

5.GIVE LESSONS FROM EXPERIENCE

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Giving lessons to children of course must be accompanied by an experience as an example, so that children can easily understand something they are facing. Prohibiting children with words will never work, because children also need freedom with the aim that in the future they can understand properly. what do we want to convey through an experience

That's a friend for how to deal with stubborn children, hopefully it will be useful for all of us who have children.

CONCLUSION
Let us always protect our children so that they do not fall into bad things, and hopefully all of our children will become obedient children to their parents and can also be useful in society.

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