Contest Series #1||Child Bearing by @sweetmaui01

Can it be by choice or by lot or by both?
Before I share my thoughts let me extend my heartfelt thanks to @ngoenyi for this contest. I hope all is well in the family and kids were healthy enjoying their day.

Child bearing is not by choice that couples make . Bearing a child is a heavenly gift. As a couple loving each other it is the essence of marriage to bear a child or children.
The happiness that parents feel is indescribable when they bear a child. Sometimes there maybe situations that the child may be formed untimely but all of us are children of God that we are created with a purpose. So no matter how difficult the situation ,child bearing is happiness to each parent or parents. It is a fulfilled promise from above.
When this question be considered? That is before marriage. Marriage life are lots of plans. It is good to have a well planned family. Much better to put importance on the incoming members of the family.
May she /he be biological child or adopted one. The capacity to provide love , care and needs of the child should be considered to have a well-balanced family.

As a little bit of advice for those who want to bear child or children.
Though parenting is not as easy as eating fishballs on the streets it is best to check on each other. Loving each other is not enough. Financial stability is also not enough. Every aspect as a couple should be balanced. Preparedness in emotion and mental stability is also very important. Prepare yourself from the following sleepless nights of feeding or when the child is not feeling well and all he or she does is cry. Prepare your emotions on emergency situations and savings And most of all if she/ he arrives its not the you and your partner against the world but its the three of you who will face the world.
As new parents the right of the child to be loved and nurtured is not only an obligation but something that you do to become responsible of what kind of a person you grow. You will become responsible of your children's future. The way they look at the world and the people around them is a part of their lessons from you as parents.
Thank you and I hope I shared something good as a parent too.

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@georgie84
@jufranketchup
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