Contest!! 10 : Can fear of lose makes your relationships more closed and trustable?
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This is such a great question. Question arises in hearts of pure minds and I will answer it with pure heart. Relationships are inseparable part of human life. We are born with god given relationships and some we make throughout our life. Love is the beautiful feeling in life. Humanity itself means the sense of kindness towards others. I feel that emotional side of humans is same all over the world. We see the same chronology.
Girls want gentlemen who cares and is loyal , parents dream of obedient kids and country demands true citizenship from its citizens. Relationships are the form of responsibility. The people who enter in relationships to gain something are the ones who fails in their life. Relationships are bonds to give more than to take. This simple process of mindset is not developed easily but majority of teenagers are understanding and becoming intellectual, Irrespective of what social media shows.
Whereas I want to talk about many mindsets in this blog. Relationships runs good by many factors like your attitude towards your person and how much efforts you put to make it work.
There are two perspectives according to me. Fear of lose depends on why you don't want to lose your relationship. Is it personal benefits or infinite love ?? If the thing is limited to personal benefits, one or the other day, the relationships will come to end.
NEGATIVE VIEW
If fear of lose becomes dominant in your relationship and you are doing sort of things just to keep the person along with you. It gets suspicious of something wrongness. It automatically deviates and possessiveness enters . Due to insecurity, people become possessive. They start objecting unnecessary things of their loved ones. The major cause is not lack of trust. Basically,due to improper definition of relationships in heads.
I believe that when you do not value yourself more. Due to void of emotional relationships, emotional intellect weakens. And this person had already developed feelings of insecurity . It just needs time to get surfaced .
They do not believe in space and freedom of their partner. For me, no relationships are above Freedom. Freewill is the precious treasure of life. And possessive people stole it due to the fear within themselves the very first. The fear which I have explained is shows the negative impact on relationships.
If we look at the second story, fear of losing loved ones will force person to put more efforts and spend time with them. They develop trust and care them.
Love Needs Action,
Trust Needs Proof,
Sorry Needs Change.
POSITIVE VIEW
I believe that people who loves infinitely will surely fear losing and does everything in their control to comfort them. Where the knowledge does not work, the behavior of handling will balance out. We should adopt humble behavior and invest our time in their loved ones. This is the positive side of fear which can be commonly understood if you have loved in your life.
It makes relationships more trustworthy and closer because a person who loves by heart and not superficially will do their best. Then the rest depends upon your intellect and personal interests.
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You're writing as if you're in a relationship, because this quality post is out of experience i guess. The fear of losing someone makes us spend quality time with them making our relationship bond to be strengthened and tight. What a post! Thanks for the invite.
Well yes i am and i think all of us our . Family .. friends all these are relationships only . I do have some experiences and so I got them out here . Yes very well said , the fear is like a driving force .
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