Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids
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My Dear Friends,
I am @shahid76 from Bangladesh.
Steemian friends, how are you all? I hope you are all well by the grace of Allah. I am also fine by the grace of Allah.
Today, I will participate in the new Engagement challenge from Steem Kids & Parents community. The name of the Engagement is "Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids." Thank you Steem Kids & Parents for bringing a beautiful engagement to us. I am very glad to participate in this engagement.
Before discussing my topics I want to invite three of my friends @mahadisalim @memamun @abdul-rakib
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What does neglect of responsibilities mean in a family- |
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Neglect of responsibilities in a family usually comes from the head of the family. As the head of the family, he has the responsibility to treat everyone in the family equally. To meet all their needs, But when a family head neglects to meet those needs despite harmony, it is called neglect of duty.
Have you been neglected or seen anyone neglected? What are the effects on the kids- |
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No, I did not accept any negligence from the head of my family. My father performed his duties with great sincerity as long as he was alive. After my father's death, my elder brother also performed the duties assigned to him to the best of his ability.
I heard a sad story of neglect of responsibility from my friend. He was my classmate. His name was also similar to mine. His name was Shahidul Islam. Today I am presenting the incident of his life.
Shahidul Islam did not have a father in his family. His mother was a housewife. He grew up with his uncle.
- He was neglected by his uncles in many ways. He suffered from food. The food that was given to him was not enough for him. So he was almost in a state of starvation.
- He was not given the necessary books to study. He had to hire books from others.
- He had to do various household chores while all the children were busy playing.
- Thus, he had to grow up neglected.
Your advice to parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their kids.- |
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Parents must be very wise. They understand much better than me. Currently, I am also serving as a parent. So let me give some advice to those parents who are neglecting their duty. If you follow the advice, hopefully, peace will return to the family.
- You should to be kind all members of the family.
- Every member must be sincere in meeting the essential needs.
- Even if any of their needs are not met, they should be discussed with them and understand why the need is not being met.
- To ensure that the children of the family get equal opportunities for education, sports, and entertainment.
- They should behave like friends so that they don't feel any inferiority complex.
- They have to inculcate the belief that you are not the ruler, rather you are their best friend.
- They should have the mindset to forgive their mistakes.
- They have to be at the forefront of the way.
our advice to the kids who are neglected- |
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- My condolences to the neglected children. I will also say to them
- You will not be disturbed by any danger.
- Even if your parents neglect you, do not be angry with them.
- No matter what situation you are in, you must have a firm resolve to be a human being.
- You have to establish yourself in the eyes of society and family.
- You will respect the elders and love the younger ones.
- Will be loyal to everyone in the family.
Hola amigo
Concuerdo contigo en que los padres tienen una responsabilidad muy importante que cumplir Pero debemos hacerle ver a nuestros hijos que somos sus amigos y no que somos los gobernantes del hogar para que sientan comunicación y puedan contarnos sus problemas y no sentirse abandonados por nuestra indiferencia o nuestra autoridad.
Todos los días trato de ser el mejor amigo de mi hija para que siempre confíe en mí y no se sienta como otros jóvenes que vemos por aquí donde yo vivo que se sienten abandonados porque sus padres no le prestan atención.
Qué bueno por ti que tuviste una familia que te cuidaba Pero qué triste esa historia que cuentas de esa persona que tuvo que alquilar libros para estudiar y que sentía siempre el abandono de sus familiares.
Suerte en tu concurso
Saludos
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As parents, we certainly understand our great responsibility to our children. But some people ignore it and it is a sin.
I agree with some of the opinions and suggestions you put forward especially for those parents who are negligent in their responsibilities. It is important to pay attention to the well-being of every family member, especially children.
Greetings success my brother..
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MODs Comment/Recommendation: Negligence is totally wrong, every child is a precious gift from God and as such deserve to be loved and cared for. Parents should carryout all their responsibilities without any negligence. Success!
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