CONTEST SERIES #1: A CHILD|| CHILD BEARING, CAN IT BE BY CHOICE OR BY LOT OR BOTH? by @pandev

A child is a symbol of love. a child is a perfect explanation of people in love. it’s a hybrid of both parents. Now, making a critical analysis, whether childbearing is by choice?

Not everyone likes children actually? People find sex interesting and they wish to enjoy themselves. They don’t see the need to produce children. On the other hand, many people including me marry because we wish to have smaller versions of ourselves, that’s children. They see the need to have a child to show the love they have for each other. So basically, bearing children is a choice that both parents make. Supporting my claim, we can have a look at the family planning methods, couples decide when to have a child and when not. With this, I will say having a child is a choice which we differ from in different aspects of life.

We are different humans with our choices. Some wish to have kids and others don’t need them. I will say bearing kids should be a major matter to be discussed before marriage comes in. Marriage is a union between two people shows it should be based on the common interest for it to work properly. Having a child is a major decision when it comes to marriage. Some people from different aspects of the world can divorce their wives because they aren’t giving birth. Others consider it normal. This means, before you marry, you have to find a partner who shares a common interest with you with kids. Either to have them or not. So, the bearing of a child should be a major discussion before marriage comes in.

Having a child is good. They show you the beauty of the world and they make you feel you have something to live for. So, taking the risk of bearing a child is worth it. But before you make that decision, I will say you should be prepared to make that child great. Make the sacrifices they need to become the future leaders you wish for them to be. It's not just the matter of giving birth but how you will make them great to appreciate you as a parent.

This is the little I wish to share. I hope you learned something from it. Thanks to @ngoenyi for this lovely contest. @jhayss, @daakye, @zology69, @fathiafatawu, and @oppongk join me in this contest let's share our thoughts.

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