You speak words in your last paragraph, being a good dad is already professional work, as a child, we dream a lot without knowing the effort to put to a brief them, sometimes circumstances occurs, you wanted to be footballer I love football too, but there are lots of manipulation to enter the country team. I know this because I was also a player who aspire to become professional in the line if football which I didn't succeed. As you have said, everything serves as an experience and they are not failure but lessons

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