SEC17 WK:#1: Forgiveness unites family
INTRODUCTION
Good morning to my wonderful steemians in this community, am so delighted to be here and I know I'm well welcome, this week steemkidss was chosen as one of the week engagement challenge community and am so happy about that, this is one of the best topics so far for engagement, it's all about our family and forgiveness, forgiveness is a key to anything in life. Today I will be giving you all the tip and why we should forgive people and our family members.. let move to the question...
EXPLAIN THE MEANING OF FORGIVENESS
Forgiving some one is the best thing to do, don't judge someone according to what the person did to you in the past, he or she might realize their mistake and come back for forgiveness, all you have to do is to forgive him or her, but mind the way you get close to that person.
In one word forgiveness is ; grace,mercy,vindication,reprieve,amnesty,dispensation and remission.. in my own words I define forgiveness as deliberate choice to release feeling towards a group of person or to a particular person who hurt you. In the bible it talks about forgiveness, it teaches us about unselfish love, this is the key for True forgiveness, it can be found in the bible (1 Corinthians 13:5), when we forgive someone it means we have let go on what the person did to us, it might have hurt us so badly but we just have to forgive them...
TYPE OF FORGIVENESS
Though out my life, I have noticed that to forgive is the best thing to do, during my research I find out that there are three types of forgiveness which the include Exoneration, Forbearance and Release..this three types of forgiveness means different things which I will explain below, the include;
EXONERATION
In this type of forgiveness, this is what comes to our minds whenever we think of the word forgiveness. This exoneration forgiveness means a relationship problem is totally wiped away and the relationship is restore to it normal state. In a simple definition the word exoneration means to forgive and forget.
FORBEARANCE
This is one of the second thing when we think about forgiveness, in this kind of forgiveness it means when one comes to apologize but try to explain that the other person need to be blame too for what happened. In an example ( am so sorry I made you feel that way), ( am so sorry if I did anything to upset you) this is what this kind of forgiveness means..
RELEASE
This is the last type of forgiveness and also the lowest one. This means the person who made you angry or hurt you has never accepted what he or she did to you. There are some examples this kind of forgiveness appears, it includes betrayal by relative or friends, Business people cheated by partners, and Survivors of child abuse..
FOUR REASONS WE SHOULD FORGIVE
There are so many reasons why we should forgive someone, the person might have hurt you so badly but we just have to forgive them, the include;
When we forgive it free us.
Our health are protected.
It helps us move forward on our spiritual and physical path.
when we forgive it remove us out of our victim mode...
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO FORGIVE OUR PARENTS
It's so important to forgive our parents, the have been the one standing by us, the protect us and even care for us since we were a child.. especially forgiving our mom is the best, the were the one that carry us for nine months in their womb, the alone know the pains the pass though, no matter what the do to us we just need to forgive them. Even if we cause them, it won't come to pass, but any mistake the cause us and we don't go for forgiveness it will definitely come to pass. It's so important we forgive our parents, no matter what the do...
CONCLUSION
Thank you all for reading my entry I really appreciate, I will be reading you all entries too, wish you success, I invite @goodybest @ekemini01 @mesola to participate in this challenge..
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Yes, it is very important to forgive your loved ones. If seen in one way, it is very beneficial for the unity of the family as well as for oneself. If we forgive someone, we eliminate the pain inside us and thus we are able to live a healthy life.
Forgiveness is very powerful in our lives we should have to look at what people will say before asking someone for forgiveness.
You are correct; raise us, supply us with all of the resources we require, educate us, assist us, constantly forgive our parents, and avoid any irritation in our relationship with them.