Yes my friend it is true, as adults we want everything organized, however children have their own idea of order at an early age, for them to see the toys scattered around is nice haha, I was telling a relative these days, hey they always do it and they are happy, let them be.

I agree that tantrums are uncomfortable but we do not have to get out of control and get to the abuse, you have to talk, lead by example, this is important if we want to correct, educate in values.