SEC17 WK:#3: large and small families, likes and dislikes
It is always another opportunity to be participating in the Steemit weekly contest and today I will be sharing with you my perspective about nuclear families and stay tuned.
My View About Nuclear Families
Growing up, I have always dream and imagine the type of family I want to have in my home when I grow up. I am someone from onset that does not like polygamous family from the onset probably due to the fact that my parents came from the polygamous family and I must say the feelings were not quite what I actually wanted but well one have no choice actually.
In fact not only that but I also discovered that some of the things that affected me was the bad stories and experience I have heard people experience in polygamous and extended families so that even go a long mile in killing my morale for extended families. But right now I have actually love nuclear families and till today it is my dream that my home when it is time to get married will be of the nuclear families.
I am someone who does not actually like a whole lot of children because I see it as unnecessary. Though people perspective differs and there are some who love it. I didn't just fancy it and so I didn't see reasons in it. In fact I prefer my children not to be more than 2-3 children as that is enough. Having 5-6 children is quite unnecessary for me I strongly believe so this even makes me love the nuclear families the more because in the nuclear families, there is a high chance for you to practice little children upbringing much more.
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There are a whole lot of likes or let me say why I actually fall in love with nuclear family nature and why I even want to have one which I will be discussing below. One major aspect of it is the peace of mind in nuclear families.
Don't get me wrong, there are other polygamous families that experience peace of mind while some nuclear families didn't have peace of mind in the family. But the fact that nuclear families didn't involve much people as less people compared to extended families, I actually prefer the nuclear families because it gives you this peace of mind much more.
Not only that but there is less conflict and dispute in the nuclear families much more because you don't really need to have a whole lot of people. I have actually come to discover that the more there are people around you, you have tendency to also experience more trouble as that is life. But since nuclear families involve little people compared to other types of families, it gives you this peace of mind and less trouble.
My Dislike for Nuclear Family
Generally I will say I don't really have a major dislike for nuclear families all other than the one that there is tendency for you to be lonely at times. That factor of loneliness tends to be more real in the nuclear families than the other types of families or I will say extended families because there are less people. Apart from that, I don't really think I have any other major dislike for nuclear families.
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Every family type have their pros and cons that comes with it including the nuclear families. One just need to deal with it and create massive adjustments as it comes. In conclusion, any day I will always choose nuclear families
I invite @lovelystar , @newekemini5 and @okere-blessing to participate in this contest.
Saludos cordiales Estimado amigo excelente su publicación y tiene mucha razón toda las familias tanto nucleares como familias grandes tienen sus dificultades el asunto está en saber discernir ante las adversidades, lo importante es que familia es familia en buenas y malas. Te deseo que tengas éxitos en tu entrada.
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts on such an important topic. You are right that every family has its own advantages and disadvantages. The most important thing is how much we can sacrifice within the family, how much we can respect each other and understand each other's feelings.
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Thank you so much
Hello friend,
You are the one who does not actually like a whole lot of children in a family. I also think so because children are the gift of God. If someone is unable to take care of them, then they may feel burdened over their parents. Well, it differs from people to people as everyone has its own thinking.
You have written a great post. I wish you good luck 🍀.
You are right. I think at the end of the day, it is really about preferences. There are people who actually prefer lot of children
Yess, correctly speaking my friend ❤️