Happiness with family, wife and children.

Peace be upon you, and Allah's mercy and blessings,

Happiness is a dream for everyone but to get happiness requires patience and perseverance in carrying out this life, even more so to realize the dream of getting happiness in the family.

On this occasion I will try to provide motivation to find happiness in ourselves and our families, the basic concept to find happiness in the family there are 4 concepts, if we have these 4 concepts, we will achieve happiness in the family.

Having a pious wife.

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The wife in the family is the pillar of the household and plays an important role in the running of the wheel of life in the family, if the wife we ​​have is a pious woman then we will achieve happiness in the family but on the contrary if the wife we ​​have is a woman who is not pious then happiness in the family will not ever achieved.

Having a pious wife is the dream of every man but not all of us get that dream wife, patience and fortitude are things we must have to guide our wives to become pious wives, because with shalihah wives we have happiness and we will feel pleasure in the family.

Have obedient and obedient children.

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Children are a mandate that must be guarded and cared for properly and it is an obligation for everyone to provide knowledge, adaptability and manners so that they become children with noble character who can make their parents proud when the child grows up later, and most importantly, a child who obedient and obedient to both parents, because having a child who has noble character, is obedient and obedient to both parents is a priceless happiness even though it is measured by gold and diamonds, if we have many possessions and other luxuries really all of that will be in vain and not get peace and happiness if the children we have are disobedient to their parents and are always rebellious and disobedient to their parents.

Have pious friends and relatives.

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Good friends are people who always help and support us both in difficult and happy times, they don't care about everything that is in us and they are sensitive to us. to other people, whatever our condition, they will accept it.
who hate us are always looking for faults, and they don't care about us. all the good we've ever done, while friends don't need all that.

Then we will get happiness in ourselves if we have true friends, who are always ready to accompany us in joy and sorrow, but on the contrary if we make friends with people who are not pious they will invite us to evil and disobedience that can destroy happiness. in ourselves, and this is a big loss in us running this life, So therefore look for friends who have noble character so that the happiness that we crave should be achieved.

Has a job or income close to family.

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We really need money-making jobs to continue our family's survival, but the problem is that not all of us get jobs that earn us money, some of us get jobs far from where we live, so sometimes we have to work.

go abroad to become migrant workers to get the job, so we are far from our wives and children, then at that time we never get happiness even though our income is so much, so therefore look for a productive job that is not far from the family so that happiness can be achieved. we desire can be achieved should.

Thus the motivation for life in seeking happiness in ourselves and our families I can write for this time, thank you very much for all the steemians who want to stop by and read my articles, without your support all this writing is meaningless.

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