Hello all my friends, I hope you are fine there, as well as me here. It's a sunny Friday with strong winds, I took the time to write my participation in the 4th week of the Steemit Engagement Challenge in the Steem Kids & Parents community. This is a very good theme and I will try to share it with all my friends, I hope you like it.

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Seeing the growth and development of children well is a feeling of gratitude and pride for parents. Parents will be very proud to see their child smart, intelligent, good morals, likes to help and respect elders. But sometimes we as parents have also made mistakes so that children can act beyond our expectations. But all of this is a process that we experience as parents so that children can grow and develop properly. We are role models and also the first education for our children.

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✨Do you think kids can be funny, excited and annoying (tantrums)? why? Write your response for each of these actions in separate paragraphs

Kids are just kids, they are too innocent to find themselves funny, or excited and annoying. They just do what they think is right, without worrying about anything. They will climb on chairs to reach their food, they will not think that they will fall and it will end up hurting them.

They will be excited when they get what they want or see something they think is extraordinary. They can be excited starting from small things like seeing ants carrying food, hearing the sound of helicopters passing even if an ice cream man passes in front of the house. They will be excited and that will make us parents also excited or just amazed by what they are excited about.

And they will be annoying even angry if what they want can not be fulfilled. This is a child's attitude that parents should be aware of. When they are in this position, they will remember and act like what we have done for them in the same circumstances. If we hit them when they are annoying, then they will hit us when they are annoyed with us, or better yet, if we hug and give understanding since they are small, then when they are annoyed, they will also do the same thing.

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✨What can make them to display their funny, excited and annoying nature? Cite some examples

What makes them look cute is something that all children in this world have naturally. They were children who didn't have any burdens on their minds. They just act according to their heart. They will do all kinds of fun and excitement just to get our attention and notice them and hug them warmly, they just want to be hugged and loved.

My children, they look cute and excited when we give them gifts, candy or let them play in the rain, make the house look like a broken ship or what children like the most and look so happy that it invites my laughter when they can play inside powder cupboard and plastered it all over the area including his mum and dad's faces. They will be very satisfied after doing so. Maybe we will be in trouble, but seeing them so happy, we will also have fun with them, they are my little angels and I love them so much.

Maybe, children will look annoying when they force something that we might not be able to fulfill and they demand it even in public. They will cry incessantly and toss and turn, usually this kind of attitude will embarrass their parents or they don't know what to do because the moment is so full of emotion. Children should listen to whata what their parents say, or we have to train ourselves to be wiser and patient in educating them and of course we don't have to spoil them.

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✨Do parents contribute to any of these actions? Examples

Of course parents are the main influence in the formation of children's character, be it funny, excited or during moments of tantrums. They are the most adept at Photocopying what they see, hear and do.

_{My son who his dad loves to talk to}

Parents must see and learn for themselves what children might be able to do. They are sometimes happy or even depressed because of our treatment or prohibition on their actions. We can't arbitrarily do anything to them even though we are their parents. And when they feel pressured, we should correct ourselves and our children so that this does not have an impact on the child's future growth.

When they are really in a difficult situation to solve their emotions, we have to do it from the moment we find them, children have naturally pleasant personalities and it will always be fun if they can express their emotions properly and correctly.

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✨Which of these actions do you hate and how do you think the kids can be helped to always display the actions you like?

Among these three traits, tantrums are the traits that really annoy parents. They act as if we have restricted them from doing something, like destroying them. At times like this we really have to recognize it from the initial symptoms, we go and try to win it.

We have to give them advice, if that's not enough we can call them, seat them and speak firmly and master the atmosphere, we have to master the atmosphere, a maturity is in front of their eyes. We can also wait for them to stop from this attitude, then give them understanding until they understand and hug us again, come back with a calm and unhurt heart, they will give back that smile and it will also make us return to them without having to make us embarrassed or make us seen by many pairs of eyes.

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✨Your advice to the kids on these actions

For parents who have children with tantrums, we have to give them happiness more often, or we have to pay more attention to them, invite them to play or give them time and opportunities to express themselves, they are children who want a lot attention and time with them, so they will feel more loved and will do better to please their parents too.

My daughter really likes gadgets, she often sees her other friends using cell phones. When I forbade him, he He said why not him, while his friends can? I only gave him an explanation accompanied by the consequences of what he would get by returning to watching videos on the impact of cellphones on children. This is also because they are bored playing at home, I will take him for a walk or to a place he likes so that his mood will recover again.

From that moment on he never watched his cellphone again if I wasn't beside him, I could even put my cellphone anywhere without anyone touching it, while my son he would follow all the actions taken by his older brother, and he was better at expressing his emotions.

We can teach children from an early age to be independent, to do good to others, to be modest, and to respect their elders, to be firm and wise about what they can do and what they should avoid without hard coercion, with gentleness and full advice. love.

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^{They (children) are simple creatures, they will laugh when something they like happens. We can see thiswhen their innocence is really in front of us. The time they are cute is the time really adorable, when they act like adults, eat themselves into a mess. Their curiosity is sometimes a kind of attempt to make us laugh. Love your children, they will also love you, when you advise them with love, they will accept it as our love for them without having to hurt them which will have an impact on their growth.}

I invite my friends to also join and participate in the contest @fajrulakmal99 @elrazi @asiahaiss @dedeanggrayni @muthmainnah @f2i5 @klen.civil on the Steem Kids & Parents Community entitled;

Steemit Engagement Challenge S6/W4 - Kids Funny, Exciting and Annoying (Tantrum) moments

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