Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

First of all big congratulations to the community for selecting Engagement challenge SEC) WK14:#1 and the theme is very important we sometimes forget about the kids who feel neglected and this why Thier personality is never come up as it should be I love to see all of yours thoughts about it and I will aslo share mine. I would like to invite first @ana07 @sulaeha @hudamalik20 for participation.

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👉What does neglect of responsibilities mean in a family🙇?

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Being a family, everyone has some responsibility It is not necessary that if someone is big then he will fulfill all the responsibilities and if someone is small then there is no responsibility on him. Every person has some responsibility.If you are an adult, what is the responsibility of an adult to take everyone along, to explain to everyone, to keep everyone well and to be an adult, to be present everywhere in every difficulty And not fulfilling these responsibilities and acting carelessly.And if we are the younger members of the family, then these are also our responsibilities, to obey what the elders say, to respect the elders and to contribute our own part in every work.

Freepik

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👉Have you been neglected or seen anyone neglected? What are the effects on the kids

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I can't say that I was neglected in my family because my parents raised me very well and I was a very pampered kid.But I have taught young children for 12 years and I have a very good idea of which children are the neglected in their family and what their behavior is and which children are perfectly raised.The behavior of these children is different from that of normal children, that is, they stay quiet and self-absorbed, they don't like to make friends, they don't socialize with anyone, and they don't share their stories.

Freepil

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They lose a personality and they feel inferior and they think that no one loves us, everyone is ignoring us because they can't keep their word because they are away from home. They are getting ostracized, they are not paying attention from their parents at home, they think that if we talk to someone, what will they think about us? By loving any child too much we are spoiling it and we start comparing other children according to that you are like that and they are not like that, thus losing the personality of children. There is a feeling of inferiority in them.

👉Your advice to parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their kids.

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To the parents, I would like to say and advise them that every child is your own child. If you have four children, three children, two children, treat them all the same. Being the first child, some parents They act like they are giving more attention to them and the other younger siblings are being neglected or most of the other third children are being neglected more.If you feel that your child is being neglected like by you, try to give him time to understand and share things with him so that he can share things with you and about the whole day. ask him to fulfill his one or two requests, to do what he wants, to make his favorite foods, to play with him if he is small.

Freepik

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👉Your advice to the kids who are neglected

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And children who are being neglected should work on their personality instead of thinking about it. Have to set up yourself first. If you are studying, focus on your studies. Make good friends, talk to them, go out with them, participate in studies with them and participate in your school activities, don't think that I am being neglected. Sometimes children are overthinking and it is not like parents are ignoring them. Help your parents in their work. Talk to your parents well. Start sharing your things with them.Trust them, listen to them, share good and bad things with them, tell them what you want and what you don't want.

Freepik

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This is my post all about the theme I hope you will like it and thanks for visiting my post I will se e you soon next week take care.✨🙂
Kind regards: @kunwal