Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

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👉What does neglect of responsibilities mean in a family🙇?

Neglecting responsibilities within a family is, in my opinion, an approach that can have significant consequences. When I choose not to fulfill my family responsibilities I jeopardize the balance and well-being of those who depend on me.

First of all, as a member of a family, I have obligations towards my loved ones. This often includes daily tasks, such as helping with household chores, supporting the family financially when necessary and being emotionally present. Neglecting these responsibilities can create an imbalance, leading to tension within the home.

Additionally, not fulfilling my responsibilities can have repercussions on the development of family relationships. Lack of involvement can lead to feelings of neglect and frustration among other family members, which can eventually lead to conflict and relationship breakdowns.

On an emotional level, neglecting my responsibilities can also have consequences on my own self-esteem. By avoiding family commitments I risk feeling guilty and developing a sense of unfulfillment. This can affect my mental health and my ability to maintain healthy relationships.

👉Have you been neglected or seen anyone neglected? What are the effects on the kids?

For my part, as a very responsible father I constantly strive to never neglect my responsibilities towards my children. This involves not only providing for their material needs but also playing an active role in their education and development.

As a teacher I am well aware of the impacts that neglect of parental responsibilities can have on children and I can confirm that these consequences extend well beyond the family home. When I see parents who do not take their responsibilities seriously I often see a direct impact on children's academic performance.

First of all, the lack of support and supervision at home can result in a general disinterest in learning. Children need a stable and encouraging environment to succeed in school. When parents neglect their educational responsibilities children may lose motivation and focus which is inevitably reflected in their academic performance.

Additionally, parental neglect can lead to delays in children's emotional and social development. Inactive parents may not be aware of the challenges their children face at school such as learning difficulties or relationship problems. These unresolved issues can negatively affect the child's overall well-being and ability to succeed academically.

As a teacher, I sometimes find myself confronted with students whose parents neglect their educational responsibilities. This often manifests itself in a lack of interest in school disruptive behavior in class and difficulty adapting to the educational environment.

👉Your advice to parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their kids.

As a teacher, when faced with parents who are neglecting their responsibilities towards their children, I strive to take an understanding and collaborative approach. First, I seek to establish an empathetic connection by recognizing the challenges that parents may encounter on a daily basis. I present myself as a supportive resource rather than a judge, emphasizing that we share a common goal: the well-being of the child.

I often start by encouraging open communication. I suggest that parents discuss their concerns, their difficulties and their aspirations as a family. I also share real-life examples of how closer communication can strengthen the parent-child bond, emphasizing the importance of lending a sympathetic ear to their children's emotional needs.

As a teacher, I strive to create a safe space where parents feel comfortable sharing their experiences and feelings. I share success stories from other parents who have overcome similar challenges, highlighting the potential for growth and positive change.

Parental education is a crucial aspect of my advice. I offer resources, workshops or seminars on parenting skills. I emphasize that lifelong learning is a positive approach and that even small adjustments in their parenting approach can have a significant impact on their children's lives.

👉Your advice to the kids who are neglected

As someone who wishes to provide advice to neglected children I believe it is essential to adopt a sensitive and understanding approach. First, I would focus on establishing an emotional connection by encouraging these children to express their feelings. I would encourage them to share their emotions with me, creating a safe space where they would feel listened to and understood.

I would strive to actively support them by letting them know that I am here for them. I would emphasize the importance of seeking support from their friends, teachers or extended family members emphasizing the idea that asking for help is a courageous step and not a sign of weakness.

I am committed to guiding them to professional resources, whether school counselors, psychologists or social workers. I would make sure they understand that there are experts ready to help them overcome the challenges they face.

To promote their emotional stability, I would encourage them to establish routines. I would help them plan regular times for meals, sleep, and leisure activities, to create a stable environment that enhances their sense of security.

My role would also be to encourage the development of their self-esteem. I would highlight their strengths and talents, encouraging them to explore activities that they are passionate about and in which they can excel. I would help them cultivate a positive view of themselves.

I would work to educate these children about the importance of setting healthy boundaries in their relationships with others. I would guide them to understand that setting boundaries is a way to preserve their emotional well-being and foster healthy, respectful relationships.

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