Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing? by @ishayachris
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Talking about family, permit me to bring to your notice that it is one of the most important things that God has given us to enjoy. He or she has no family, no history, no background, and no place to run to. Our family serves as our identity, and that is one of the things that gives us recognition even in society.
Unfortunately, due to challenges and other factors, some families ( Father and mother) have gone apart leaving the children to suffer the consequences. For a child to be adequately trained in the ways of society, he or she needs the presence of both parents (father and mother). The reason is, that every one of them has a vital role to play in the life of the child.
When either the father or mother is absent, the discipline or space that he or she is supposed to occupy becomes empty in the life of the child. As such the child becomes inadequately trained. In return, the society suffers the consequences. If look around society today, you will get to understand that most of the nuisances we have are the children from broken homes.
Most of the kids failed to get a good education, shelter, clothes, and even medical care. As a result, they grow to become a problem to the society. To me, one of the worst things that can happen to a child is to have his parents divorced. For a child to grow mentally, physically, and spiritually fit, he or she needs to be trained with love from both parents.
I have witnessed many instances where husband and wife fight, only to see the wife shading tears and regretting ever going into the marriage. But in the end, you would hear her say "If not for my kids, I could have left this house". The question is, why can't she go and leave the kids? Of course, she knows how important her presence is in the lives of her kids.
She understands that her absence will cause harm and havoc to the kids. She is fully aware that the kids will grow to become useless in society without her presence. As such, she chose to be there for them, to give them the adequate training needed to be what they oath to be.
In conclusion, a separate home is nothing to be encouraged. It has turned our society into what it is today. It has given us millions of nuisances. As such, say NO to it.
I now invite @josepha, @nsijoro, and @emmaboyh23 to participate.
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Till today, i will say that a mum with only boys cannot train all her boys to be calm and gentle children without the help of the father, I don't underestimate God's ability to raise children who will live right for him. But the fear a child will always have in the presence of the dad is another thing we can never look down on. Mum tend to show compassion and can be easily draw to her childs will because of the nature tender heart stuff. Friend training a child to become responsible from parent who get separate by crisis is not possible. So a cooperative effort is needed to train a child to become responsible in future.