CREATIVEWRITING:-PARENTS AND CHILDREN RELATIONSHIP MATTER
A very good day to all members of this great community hope you all are doing great. I being here today is a very thing of joy and I am also here to share this amazing article to everyone and for we all to learn .
In our society lately there are so much issues concerning bad and good parent and child relationship.
A parent is seen as two people who agreed to be together,got married and had children.The presence of children makes them both parents and no one is left out .
They way the children behaves while growing can be traced to their background that is the home from where they are coming from, weather good or bad behavior a child displays the society refer it back to their upbringing which is their parents.
A good child is always set apart from others easily by their behavior. The parents of the child are being praised for having a well trained child and the child is being used as good examples to other bad ones whom their parents want them to change and be a better person.
Children are gift's from God to bless and beautify the home . They are offsprings of a married couple who have successfully went through the process of reproduction till the child is out .
Children are born with an empty brain whatever they do say or emulate is a result of what their parents do in their presence or the impact of the environment wether good or bad .When a child is born the child begins to learn immediately,from learning how to suck till the baby walks and starts talking then after that the baby is still learning at this point on how to relate with their mates not being rough and how to be on their own and not disturbing,then they are being taught to be independent where the are being taught how to ease them selfs and still not soil themselves.Truly with all these stages children are truly gifts from God.
So many parents are less concerned about their children and how they are fairing some even display violence at home in the presence of their children which causes bad effects on the child .
The relationship a child shares with his or her parents is what determines how much they would be guilded and how well their parents can know them. Children especially the females ones are really vanurable to risk and danger in the society unlike that of the male tho the both are not safe .
As a parent your ability to make your child trust you and shear secrets about things with you describes you as a good parent . As a child grows even from birth the really need someone to trust and feel safer with ,mostly for good reasons like their dad not always being around or not having much time or being harsh the children find more comfort in their mother
Children most times in their puberty age they tend to make mistakes which if they aren't corrected on time it can cause their life to be spoiled up.At this stage the child starts being secretive about things and in a situation where the parents are not really close to the child or steadily telling them dangers of things and the child due to not being properly guided can make big mistakes that affect for life.
If parents both the dad and mom create a big time self free relationship with their children and build so much trust with them the children can easily rely on them and also pure out their hearts on things that are happening around them and things that are affecting them .
What is your say on this dear friends.........
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