How to protect kids from being abused sexually by @iddy/10% payout to @steemkidss

in Steem Kids & Parents3 years ago

HELLO EVERYONE

Greetings to all the kids lovers,I am delighted to be here,I hope you are all safe. I want to share with my fellow kids lovers how kids can be protected from sexual abuse.

MEANING OF CHILD'S SEXUAL ABUSE

Child's sexual abuse is an improper act that occurs when an adult uses a kid(minor) to satisfy his or her own sexual desire. This despicable act includes having sexual intercourse with a minor,oral or anal sex with a minor,fondling of genitalia, breasts or buttocks of a minor and other perverted acts with a minor. Sad to say, child's sexual abuse is a worldwide plague,and people from different background have been affected by this plague. But who are the victims of child's sexual abuse?

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VICTIMS OF CHILD'S SEXUAL ABUSE

Both boys and girls are victims of child's sexual abuse, but most victims are girls.

But who are the perpetrators of this gross sin?

PERPETRATORS OF CHILD'S SEXUAL ABUSE

Both men and women are perpetrators of child's sexual abuse,but most abusers are men.

THE DEPTH OF ABUSING KIDS SEXUALLY

Abusing a kid sexually hurts the child in devastating ways. The perpetrator betrays the kid's trust,robbing him/her of his or her Security.kids must be protected from such a wicked deed, child's sexual abuse is a sin against secular authorities and a sin against God. But how can kids be protected from being abused sexually?

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HOW TO PROTECT KIDS FROM BEING ABUSED SEXUALLY

It is the responsibility of parents/guardians to protect their kids from this life time harm. You can do the following to protect your kids from abuse:

(I) Educate yourself about child's sexual abuse: Learn about the kind of persons who abuse kids and the the tactics they use to deceive kids. For example,if someone who appears more interested in kids than adults chooses your kid for a special attention and gifts,act quickly but be wise as such behavior may be quite innocent. Be cautious and alert to potential threats, always remember that in most cases the abuser is someone the kid already knows and trusts.

(II) maintain good communication with your kids: Do not only talk to your kids, but always listen to your kids. Always have at the back of your mind that kids are often reluctant to report abuse because of fear that they will not be believed,or they may have been threatened by the abuser to keep his crime secret. Be observant,if you sense something is wrong,or your kid is behaving strange,kindly draw your kid out by asking questions and patiently listening to her answers.

(III) educate your kids: some parents/guardians find it a bit awkward to discuss with their kids about sex and your kids may find it even more awkward, but for the safety of your kids give them sex education with age-appropriation. Teach your kids what to say and do if someone (even uncles and teachers) tries to touch their genitalia, breasts or buttocks. It very pertinent in today's world for kids to know that there are some people who want to touch them or get kids to touch them in ways that are wrong. Let your kids know that no one should ask them to keep secret from you,tell your kids that if anyone asks her to keep anything secret from you,they should always let you know, that no matter what they are told, even if scary threats are made or they have done something wrong themselves-it is always okay to let mommy or daddy know about it.

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CONCLUSION

Kids can be protected from being abused sexually if parents/guardians educate themselves about sexual abuse, maintain good communication with their kids and give their kids sex education with age-appropriation.

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 3 years ago 

Great information in just a post.

Thanks for sharing 👍

 3 years ago 

Thank for visiting my blog @pandev,I really appreciate.

 3 years ago 

My pleasure ✨

 3 years ago 

This is very important and interesting thanks for bringing it here

 3 years ago 

@vickydear,thank you for visiting my blog. Yes,it's very important.

 3 years ago 

This is a very important information, thank you for sharing it with us here, our lovely steemkidss will learn from this post. Continue to share your quality contents with us here!

 3 years ago 

Thank you so much,I really appreciate.

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 3 years ago 

Thats such a great info and thanks for sharing @iddy

 3 years ago 

Thank you @ubongudofot for visiting my blog,I really appreciate.

Both boys and girls are victims of child sexual abuse, but most victims are girls.

This is soo true. But I think the boys should also be seriously checked upon as well to avoid the overall abuse on both sexes.

 3 years ago 

You are correct sir,both boys and girls are victims of abuse,but mostly girls. Thank you so much for visiting my blog,I really appreciate.

👍🏽👍🏽😎

 3 years ago 

Congratulations to you @iddy your post has been selected as one of the quality post for today. Continue be active and be posting quality contents here.

 3 years ago 

Wow,I am super excited,this is unbelievable. Thank you!.

Thank you for taking your time to write out this educative piece,it's worth reading

 3 years ago 

Thank you for visiting my blog,I really appreciate.

 3 years ago 

This reminds me of a little innocent girl who was molested by her uncle. This man should have been in his early twenties by then. As always they case, she was said to be promiscuous and had brought all those to herself. People paid little or no attention to the paedophile who took advantage of a minor.

I still get upset when I think of the effects of this act because most of these children become sex maniac.

No perpetrator of this evil act should ever be left to go scot-free. No matter who they might be. Thanks for educating us on this.

 3 years ago 

Thank you @ukpono for visiting my blog. Yes none of the perpetrators of this wicked act should go unpunished.

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