Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

Good evening! My name is Icon Bassey and I welcome you all to the Steemit Engagement challenge week 14.

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What does neglect of responsibilities mean in a family🙇?

Neglecting of responsibilities is a situation where an individual failed to carry out thier obligations or duties within the family unit.

Neglecting can comes in various forms like parents failing to provides basic needs to thier children (like clothing, shelter or food), parent failing to provides attention and support to the family. it's can also include in not contributing financially to the family and not participating in caregiving responsibilities. All this act can affect the family both physically and psychologicial well being as this can compromise the over all functioning of the family unit.

Have you been neglected or seen anyone neglected? What are the effects on the kids

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I have not been neglected before by my parents. But I have seen a child been neglected before by his parents. The story happened when his mother died and the decided to take a second, after a while the second wife gave birth to two kids, so along the line, the dad, due to his dad's reason he couldn't give attention this first child from the first. The second wife refuses to feed this child, no support financially and emotional, no medical supports again, and the child had to drop out from school cos of financial supports.

Neglecting occurs when the caregivers no longer provides adequate emotional, educational and medical needs

Effects of neglect on children

  • Child who are neglected experience high rates of accident and injuries, lack of proper food , malnutrition, lask of proper hygiene and lots to mention

  • Neglecting can affects a child emotionally and can leads to anxiety, depression and low self esteem.

  • Neglecting children may experience some kind of academic challenges due to lack of educational support from the parents.

  • Neglected children struggles with trust, difficult in social settings.

  • Children who are neglected experience behavioral problems such as aggression, impulsivity and defiance.

Your advice to parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their kids.

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Parents who neglect thier responsibilities to thier children can affects the well being development of that particular child.

Let me list some suggestions for parents who neglect thier responsibilities towards thier kids

  • Recognize that neglecting your responsibilities towards your kids can affects thier emotional, physical and cognitive development

  • Seek the attention of a trust friend, members who will give u guidance and support. This people may assist you in meeting your responsibilities .

  • If you are experiencing difficulties in changing from your behavior consider seeking professional helps , it's maybe a counselor or a social worker they may help navigate the challenges and detect the underlying issues and provides you with tips on how to improve your parenting

Your advice to the kids who are neglected.

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If you are child who have been neglected by your parent. Remember that you not alone and there are many people out there who provide help to you when you need one.

Below are the pieces of advice I would like to give.

  • It's essential to speak to someone you really trust like your counselor, neighbors, teachers or your relatives about the situation you are facing . They can support you in finding any solution you need

  • It's is crucial to remember that you deserve love, care and support.

  • Look for places within your environments and spend your time during situations like this, it's maybe community center, your friend's place or school activities.

  • Invest your time in your studies, participate massively in school activities and seek academic support when needed. Education canbe a great way to break out from situation

  • Reach out for help, focus on your education, you can create a good and brighter future for yourself.

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Neglect in families is a grave issue affecting children's well-being. Your insights on neglect's various forms and its impact are enlightening. Parents must recognize their responsibilities, seek guidance, and address underlying issues. For neglected kids, seeking help, focusing on education, and creating a brighter future are essential. 🌟👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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Thanks for your support

 8 months ago 

You have nail it all my friend if a a caregiver fail to provide the needs for the person in question it's become a problem it affect the cognitive development of that child and causes demand in that child behaviour, it makes a child to become so heartless at some point that he or she can't believe, Trust anybody around him

it's also true that there is people out there that can give you a helping hand just as you said they deserve love and care I love reading your article is beautiful, best wishes

Thanks for reading

 8 months ago 

The personal touch and practical advice you gave made your post compelling for reading,because your emphasis on seeking support and breaking the cycle of neglect through education reflects a commitment to positive change.

Thanks for the positive comment

Nice one bro,The effect of neglecting responsibilities has cause more individual to go opposite direction.thanks for also engaging,wishing you the best of luck my bro

 8 months ago 

Hello friend greetings to you, hope you are having good time there.

It's really good you have not been gone through the trauma of ignoring and neglection. You have shared a very miserable story of a poor kid. His mother died and his father got married again. I really hate such people.

Wish you best of luck in the contest dear.

Upvoted. Thank You for sending some of your rewards to @null. It will make Steem stronger.

 8 months ago 

Parents who neglect their duties toward their kids are destroying their future gradually. Parents must consider children education as one of the most important things because through education children will know what is right and wrong.

Children who are neglected must seek help from the caregiver so that they will understand how to deal with difficult issue that may occurs.

 8 months ago 

Hi dear @icon-monday, your entry was made before the time of the contest. Hence, your entry is invalid

Upvoted.Neglecting family responsibilities impacts kids' well-being emotionally, academically, and socially, leading to various challenges and difficulties. Seeking guidance and support, both for neglected children and parents, is crucial for positive changes and well-being.Over good participation dear.best wishes for you.

Parents neglecting their responsibilities is a bad omen, I wish there will be monitoring team that will be checking parents to see how far they are doing with thier children. My friend you have done very well on this post. I wish you success.

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