Effects of bullying and how kids can win over their bullies

in Steem Kids & Parents2 years ago (edited)

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Bullying is a very painful attitude that leaves the recipient in a feeling of dejection and sadness, little winder it should be banned in the society, and such people should be punished. First of all though:

What is Bullying?

Bullying is an unwanted or aggressive behaviour
mostly among school children that involves power imbalance. It is also the use of force or hurtful threat to intimidate a person or group of people. It is also defined as a repeated behavior or action used to hurt a person.

I have not experienced bullying before, but it is mostly found in schools of today, which is prevalent among secondary schools.
Mostly between seniors and juniors.

I also have not been bullied before but from the experiences of people I have heard being bullied, it is not a good experience, it is really painful, I'd it is mostly the use of verbal bullying, I think that it's probably the one that hurts the most.

That leads to the forms of bullying

Forms of bullying

  • Verbal bullying: This is the use of verbal words or statement, or perhaps name calling, to gain control over a person. Most people use relentless insult to demean and hurt another person.

  • Relational Aggression: This refers to the use of fake news.Most of them spread fake rumours and so on.

  • Cyber bullying: This is the use of the internet or smart phone or technology to embarrass a person. For example posting hurtful images or making threats online, sending hurtful emails or texts.

  • Physical bullying: This is the use of fist, or physical effects. It involves assault and inflicting of physical injury in a person.

How can kids win over bullies

Most bullies today persevere in the attitude to particular groups of people, but by following these ways you can beat a bully without the use of fist.

  • walk away

  • One can use humour to defuse the situation

  • You can also seek help from mature freinds and family members.

Why might kids be bullied

  • In most schools, it is kids who Are intelligent, because they mostly get the teachers attention, they might be jealous.

  • Because of the person's race or country

  • Because of an illness

  • A person's religious beliefs

Lastly though

Effects of bullying

Bullying has a large amount of emotional effect on the receiver, some of them are

  • Depression
  • Increased feeling of sadness
  • Loss of interest in activities
  • Fear
    *Suicidal thoughts

Conclusion,

Bullying is not a good picture to paint in the minds of people, So we all should never wish to be a victim of such.
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 2 years ago 

Woww you have explained in really a nice way. Hope every child is safe from bullies

 2 years ago 

Thanks and I hope so too

 2 years ago 

Wish you best of luck

 2 years ago 

🌝🌝😁

 2 years ago 

Suicide! It’s such a scary thought but it happens even with kids in primary school.
So sad! 😢

 2 years ago 

I feel really really sad when I hear such tragic events, I just hope that one day, our world will change for the better😥😭😭
Thanks for reading my post anyway

 2 years ago 

Just for you… 🍫

 2 years ago 

Thank you ma, I appreciate with open arms.

 2 years ago 

@fortwis09 this issue is really alarming
Parents need to consciously find out what's happening in their kid's life before it's too late

 2 years ago 

Yes my dear, you are indeed right

 2 years ago (edited)

All this forms of bullying is seen in the world today thank you for outlining them, I experienced some of this before, and what I did is to leave the scene immediately then inform my parents about it, they were really source of help to me. Thank you for sharing this, wish you success in your entry.

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 2 years ago 

Your method was very interesting, thanks for reading

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Un tema muy importante que debemos conocer los padres para estar atentos, ya que esta agrasion la cual se trata del bullying a la final perjudica mucho el autoestima, gracias por compartir la información, saludos

 2 years ago 

It's my pleasure

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