WHAT FAMILY MEAN TO YOU

in Steem Kids & Parents3 years ago (edited)
WHAT FAMILY MEAN TO ME

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What3word
Location: mouau
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Family is where a child is born in, nurtured and taking care of. A family may not necessarily mean biological relations they can be people who made the best out of you. Those around you,who stands by you at all times with their support,care , love, finance, prayers, discipline and leads you to the way to your destiny. Family takes you the way you are without option or alternative it can be blood related, groups like club members, church, course mates, roommates , friends and well wishes. A family is built with love with the goal of assisting one another to be successful in life and taking care of each other. We have individual of different sex in a family either Male or female. The male is acknowledged as the leader in a any family while the female acts as his assistance. We bare children and forms a family and the children depends on them for survival their feeding, shelter, upkeep is being taken care of by their parents.

CAN TWO FAMILIES BE THE SAME?

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What3word
Location: mouau
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The truth is two families can and cannot be the same. Persons from the same home have physical resemblance,same blood group and have the same training/discipline. They understand their body languages because they have known for long, the know each others weakness and have a way of handling it. Two families cannot be the same because they may not have the same believe,norms and values. The up bringing differs and you can't compare the two , what works in this family may not work in this family. One can be tolerating insults , shouting, and abuse from each other while the other may not. One family can be Christan while the other another religion you see their beliefs will not tally , their choice of food may differ and their area of interest may not be the same. Their financial status may not be the same and their income may differ.
Two families can as well be the same if they have the same believe system, norms ,values and pursue the same goal. We have seen several times where someone from another family corrects individuals from another home and it's appreciated and approved.

DO YOU CURRENTLY BELONG TO A FAMILY?

Yes! I am from Amizi Olokoro, Umuahia South, Abia state, Nigeria. From the family of onwukwe we are 2 boys and 2 girls. I am the most loved because my mother believes I brought light to her home. I was named Chinecherem by my family meaning God is thinking for my welfare.

IS YOUR FAMILY THE IDEAL TYPE YOU WILL LIKE TO ALWAYS BELONG TO OR ARE YOU JUST MANAGING IT?
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Yes! My family is an ideal home for me because I don't think any other family can be like them. My family mean my world to me, I'm the 3rd child in the family of 5. I'm trained by my mother alone. They are strength to my elbows, my support, my responsibility,my anchor. Being trained alone by a single person is not really easy my mother and siblings cater for shelter, clothing, feeding and training me in the university. I call them my responsibility because I know I owe a lot to them. They are my friends I discovered that no matter how close you are to an outsider no one will treat you like your family, I may have misunderstanding with someone the person picks offence walks away and there ends the story but no matter how I offend anyone at home we will surely come back and become friends. My mother will Always say "your annoyance with your brother does not reach the bone marrow". They are my helpers as a student in school something can come up that needs immediate response I can request for assistance from an outsider they can turn me down without any further action but my family will sort for a means to assist if not immediately but they will take it upon themselves an see that I am assisted. They are my companion I can always have them around me, they have sense of humor especially the younger one ugochukwu he can talk like an adult at age 3 his always telling me I missed you each time I return back from school. He will tell me I love you! Smiles when he is crying I will call him and tell him Ugo come and give me Ice cream he will run and kiss me, I will scream Ugo did you put it inside refrigerator he will say yes! There ends his crying he will lay his complain I will tell him sorry and he becomes happy.

HOW CAN YOU IMPROVE YOUR FAMILY?

I can do this by studying hard, working smart, making good decisions that will lead me to obtain great results and making enough money to assist my family. Each time I look at my family something in me compels me to strive hard in anything that will benefit us. I look at them I have reason to be the best because I can't afford to fail my mother. She always say that one day she will always live in a home of her own I took it upon myself and say I will do everything good possible to ensure I build a comfortable house for my family. She hardly rest especially my mother even when you tell her to; I will take her abroad for rest, make her experience another life style. will open I good business that the account will be run by my family. I will ensure everyone is well established in their endeavors and I will teach my mother that everything does not only work by shouting smiles! She believes she must shout to get things done but I will correct that impression.

WHAT ADVICE CAN YOU GIVE TO OTHER FAMILIES THAT IS WORKING FOR YOU?

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What3word
Location: mouau
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We solely believe that their is future hope ahead. So many people believe that their current situations is their end no better future seem forth coming but NO my family believes there is a better day ahead. My mother didn't attend University but she will always say "my children must be greater than me" ," I know one day God you will change my story" . We were living in one room before , from one we moved to two and now we are living in flat . No matter what you are going through "there is a better day ahead" don't give up, don't relent , don't relax nothing happens until you make it happen. Change starts from within you must change your believes and ways of doing things do something extra ordinary to achieve a different result, don't lazy around and end with people's conclusions. Arise Stand firm everything is possible it takes smart work, time, and patience. Love keeps you going , determination becomes your breastplate , I can do mentality be guided don't always allow third parties , fault finders they are enemies to your success. Settle your difference amicably . support each others opinion, stand by them. What is yours is yours no one can take care of you than your own cherish what you have.

ANYTHING ELSE YOU WILL LIKE US TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR FAMILY WE WANT TO KNOW?

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What3word
Location: mouau
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We do farming business and we process Garri, my sister works in Chivita company so we sell their products, we are expecting a new baby soon smiles. We are Christians and worships in Living Faith Church aka Winners Chapel Olokoro Umuahia South Abia state in Nigeria. We care and take care of others the ugochukwu I talked about is a boy from another tribe my younger brother saw him at tender age few months he discovered he sleeps on the floor with a small bed he felt for him because, his mum sales herbal drugs a young single mother he told my mom to take care of the child since then Ugochukwu stays with us his 3years now. His mom only comes and visit him and he calls my mother his smiles
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