Welcome after a short break. My wife and daughter were a little sick. So I had to run around a little bit with them for help. I have a cold now, but I can handle it. Taking a cold shower every day does its job. I won't give in to illness.

I believe that the impact of parents ' behavior on a child's mental and physical health is significant. After all, it is from an early age that a child develops his first look at the world and everything that surrounds him. Suppose parents think negatively and convey these negative emotions to the child, as well as positive emotions. In that case, this has a very big impact on the development and perception of everything in the future.

I didn't have good parents and a good childhood. My parents didn't pay much attention to me. They were more concerned only with themselves and business, and at home, I did not experience much love and good experiences. Perhaps, on the one hand, it is a good thing that it happened because such unpleasant experiences build character. Now, thanks to this, I know better how not to take care of my child.

In short, my mom was only interested in what grades they got at school and never even asked about their well-being. My dad was a workaholic (still is) and an alcoholic (still is). They were more interested in money than in what was happening to their children. It was only after some time that I stopped listening to them and began to learn about our world myself. I am trying to raise my daughter very well, I have read a lot of guides and books related to children and I think my experiences will perfectly match my parenting plans.

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I felt a little bit sorry for my parents, but over time I got over it because maybe they just weren't ready for it. Every man makes mistakes.

I can't say which of my parents ' behaviors I like the most, because I just don't like their behavior at all and the way they look at the world.

For them, only money matters, and everything else is in the background. In my opinion, such thinking is very empty, and money does not give happiness they do not have much besides money.

The key to raising a good child is understanding. We were all such small children once. So as adults, let's not forget that the child has more imagination and does not look at the world in the same way as an adult. As a child grows up and develops new passions, we cannot impose our unfulfilled dreams on him or prevent him from doing what he loves. This is called wing clipping, and because of this, our child can be unhappy for the rest of his life.

No matter what our child wants to do in life, we as parents should support him in this.
This is the key to raising a good child.

Message for my parents:

Don't look at the world through money. It's just an illusion. Start loving, feeling, and experiencing. Look at the world more broadly. Open your mind.

I invite:
@crisvera
@patience90
@fjjrg
@yonaikerurso
@marpa
@vivigibelis