Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing? by @ekemini01

Introduction

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The debate between a joint family system and a separate home for children’s upbringing is multifaceted. Both arrangements have their own merits and demerits, but when evaluating which is better for children’s development, it becomes clear that the joint family system offers a more robust foundation for their upbringing.

Argument

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Joint families can provide a sense of community and belonging, which can enhance children’s social skills and personality development. Living with extended family members, for instance, can also help children learn the art of giving and sharing, which is important for their overall personality growth. Proponents of separate homes argue that it offers privacy, autonomy, and independence for nuclear families. They contend that in a separate home, parents have more control over parenting decisions. However, this overlooks the richness of experience and support networks that a joint family system provides.
In addition, research indicates that children from stable, married families tend to perform better academically due to the guidance, support, and structure they receive at home. Studies suggest that family structure, particularly the presence of both biological parents, plays a crucial role in children’s academic success. In a joint family setup, children have access to a wealth of knowledge and experience from grandparents, aunts, uncles and older cousins. This diverse pool of wisdom serves as a valuable educational resource, supplementing formal schooling with practical insights, and life lessons. This provides built-in academic accountability mechanisms.

Furthermore, the joint family system preserves traditional customs and beliefs, which play a crucial role in shaping a child’s identity and worldview, by providing a platform for continuous learning about culture and heritage. Children who grow up surrounded by these traditions are likely to develop a stronger connection to their roots and identity. They learn to respect and appreciate diversity, as they engage with family members from varying backgrounds. Cultural practices are not just individual pursuits but shared experiences that strengthen bonds and reinforce a shared sense of identity.

Conclusion

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Through its immersive cultural environment, intergenerational transmission of knowledge, socialization, emotional well-being and parental presence, the joint family system promotes optimal child development. Overall, it serves as a robust foundation for children’s holistic growth and maturation into responsible citizens.

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