I very much understand you ma. It don't really make sense s you say to compare or prefer one thing or the other as time doesn't stand still but it actually worth it. I know you prefer living at the moment but this contest is trying to make us understand that at different stages in life, one must have enjoyed one stage more than the other. You're quite advanced and must have passed the stage of childhood into adulthood. You must have probably loved or love one of the two stages maybe because of what you have experienced or is experiencing. And most importantly, I appreciate you points concerning adulthood. As an adult, you're very much free to live and independent life but as kid, you're not given such rights. Thanks for sharing. I greatly appreciate your entry in this contest. Please kindly visit mine