Contest:Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing?

in Steem Kids & Parents7 months ago (edited)

Joined family is a type of family composed of parents,their children and their children's spouse and offspring all in a house.A joined family involves both the nuclear and extended family living in one compound in my country it is called family house.

In a joined family house everyone does things together.They eat from the same place and they make decisions together. They care for each other and they function as one family.

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Demerits of Joined Family

  1. In a joint family house house there is no privacy as everyone does everything together.
  2. In a joint family house envy and strive is one common thing as one does not have privacy, the issue of one person doing well more than the other can cause envy.
  3. In a joint family house you don't get to make your own decisions as everyone has to be involved in whatever thing you want to do.

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Separate Home.

A separate family involves just father, mother and children. Living in their own space.

In a separate family the mother and father makes the decision for and there's privacy in the home.
They don't have to have to take permission from other family members before they make decisions on important matters.

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I grew up in a separate home and i would say that i will choose separate family home over joined family. In my country joined family home is more of problems than progress. When many people are too involved in your life is more of a problem.

Separate family home is the best. If there is need to involve extended family on some matters that is a different thing not that they know about your every move. It will cause more harm than good. Not every one smiling with you is interested in your well being.

Thank you for reading.comments are welcomed.

Cc. @uzma4882

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