*SEC / S11W4 - """"more freedom""""

I want to salute the entire family of this great community for showcasing an amazing contest like this. I believe that my viewpoint would be digested by everyone here...

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WHAT DO YOU UNDERSTAND TO BE FREEDOM AS A PARENTS OR KID?

For me, growing up in a semi-detach building with my siblings had always been fair. Mostly, not in my usual outlook, the pains and the gains, all throwing a dark flash on me.

As a kid, I've always learnt to be tolerant, obedient and submissive to my elders; but not to the height of selling my manumission. I love decency and I've trusted every folks around me to treat me as kind.

But freedom had always been my outcry. Nobody wanna give me freedom. Nobody wanna guarantee my manumission. The places I go and the things I do does not even command freedom as I desire. From this experiences, I understand freedom as a liberation from cage-life, trench-life, ill-life, and fake-life.

Most parents lockup their kids at home without freeing them, especially the female child in Nigeria is believed to be angelic and mysterious. And so, liberation is impossible. Our parents tends to unlock our secrets through their monitoring codes and therefore make us live cage-life, trench-life, ill-life and fake-life.

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WHAT CAN MAKE YOU TO GRANT MORE FREEDOM TO YOUR KIDS OR WHAT CAN YOU DO TO EARN MORE FREEDOM?

As a kid, from my outline experiences above, I can do the following to earn more freedom:

✅ Be strategic: Let your parent know you for who you are. Be Specific in unfolding your realness. Let them not know you as a bad egg. Bad egg decays. It doesn't last for even a minutes.

So no matter how coded you are, for the fact that you're a bad egg, if your parents got to know that you've been secretly hiding something from them, they will restrict your movement and that will bond your freedom. So inorder to earn more freedom, be strategic, let out the cat from the bag.

✅ Be Truthful: Parents hates children that lie. There's no how you will be convincing when you have a dark nature of lieing. If there's only one thing that will grab the heart of your parents, it should be your sincerity. Be Truthful.

✅ Work Hard Academically: I was opportuned to handle some preliminary classes some days back and one of the morals acquired was: Hardwork pays.

Beside, the shocking truth about this whole stuff is that: Success opens the heart of our parents and make them overjoyed for our sake. None of them will ever request for your money, a good and responsible parenthood are after your ⤵️

So when they start seeing your improvement, it's a more reason why you shouldn't be cage. Instead liberated to enjoy the God giving atmosphere.

✅ Love God and do what He loves: I know some folks will debate on this. But that's the truth. I'm just giving you some topnotch secrets on commanding meaningful freedom to your life instead of living a cage-life, trench-life, ill-life and fake-life.

If you love God and follow God, do what He does, no parents will ever rejects your newfound passion. They will even want to assist you...

I've been guaranteed several privileges like this and because I've been strategical and logical enough to comport myself, I hardly deviate out of the pathway. But if you can sincerely carryout this four ways of earning freedom as a child or kid, trust me, you won't live to regret.

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ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF FREEDOM BOTH TO PARENTS AND KIDS

Advantages of freedom to parents and kids

Disadvantages of freedom to parents and kids

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WHAT CAN CAUSE ONE TO LOSE THE FREEDOM HE OR SHE HAS?

Like I said before, there are so many factors that could be responsible for Loosing freedom. Some of them are:

1. Stubbornness: Your parents will never trust you if you're stubborn. They will always put an eye on you... So if I were you, I would deny stubbornness.

2. Disobedience to Parents: Like they say: Disobedience is greater than witchcraft. This is also related to stubbornness because it deny you of some trust from your parents.

3. Big Eye: If you have this attitude, there's need to readjust yourself. Big Eye children don't appreciate their parents offer, their eyes are always requesting for rich things as if they are rich. Meanwhile, they are broke. And that will delved their attention into immoral acts like yahoo hacking, yahoo plus, suicidal and many more.

Note: Always be Certify with what you have.... Be contended with the little God has given to you.

WHY IS FREEDOM NECESSARY?

I will start from Nigeria states. Freedom is necessary. I've carried out thousands of research on why female children misbehave once they're out of the house or gain admission into University.

If freedom is not necessary, some kind of behaviours or attitude worn by most Nigerian girls won't be so harden. In this part of the world where I am, the western Africa, Nigeria, parents developed the habit of depriving their children (especially the female children) from their rights, as a means of protecting them from street boys — with deadly emotions to seduce and disvirginized them.

However, that may not actually be the best since freedom is involved. Our children lack this knowledge. They are locked up in the room and deprived of environmental overview.

Most of this teenage pregnancy carriers are female children who were deprived of environmental overview by their parents and when they had the opportunity to scan the environment in a single day, they overreact.

In conclusion, let's try all we can to make our children's life the most favourite. Let's treat them as humans. Let's stop privatizing.

I invite @bossj23, @ngoenyi and @benton3 to participate