Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing? by @cletuskevin
Introduction
Whatever from the beginning is not main to be so according to God standard no matter what, it can never be favorable when compared to God standard.
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God originally created family with the sole intention that they should be together and not apart, and for that reason permit me to say whatever is against God's standard can never be without painful consequences.
Simple Description of both terms.
A family system is made up of people for example father, mother raising their children together in one household and looking after each other well-being while on the other hand just like the name; Saperate Home implies that the father and the mother are not in any union but living apart.
I will like to support favorably the motion of Family System against it counter part Separate Home.
Family System is Better than Separate Home
Saparated Homes has adverse negative effect on the children's upbringing with undeniable proves. Children living with their married, biological parents consistently do enjoy better physical, emotional, and academic well-being.
Family System to the best of my knowledge has the best chance of producing healthy children.
Divorce is a big enemy in the society and should be highly discouraged. No child on a normal circumstances will be happy and comfortable staying apart from any of his parents. Seen your friends who have both parents with them can brake your heart, you begin to wish yours are together.
Children from a divorce parents emotional well being is a thing of great concern. Those that are there or have being there can tell you what it felt and would do anything if within their power to come out of it.
The absence of a parent will always live a vacuum on the life of a child, so therefore the need of both becomes necessary. This can be seen even on little children at a very tendered age; a child may be with his mum from morning and may not be able to express how the absence of the father affects him, but his expression when the father is back from work later in the evening is a prove that he needs him the mother's presence not withstanding.
The absence of fatherhood which is the most common on saperate homes today is very dangerous to the child's upbringing, this is because many children tends to have fear of being punished by their father when they err thereby, leading them to living a decent life which has a positive advantage to their upbringing. Many hooligans, criminals, prostitutes that we have today when traced they are found to be victims of Separate homes.
Many young adults nowadays feels marriage is old-fashioned therefore resulting to the rapid rise of what we know as 'single mothers' or 'baby mamas' in my country, thereby raising children as single parent. This to my opinion most be highly discouraged in the society.
Most reasons behind separate homes is divorce. Divorce and parental separation are damaging to children, families, the economy, and society as a whole.
Divorce has been shown to have adverse negative effect on a child's future competence in all areas of life, including family relationships, education, emotional well-being, and future earning power.
What I mean here is that when a child experiences parental divorce, there are significant losses that can be acknowledged or noticed when carefully observed.
Parent most know that their decisions on saperation can destroy the destiny of the child and for that reason they most work together as husband and wife to ensure that their children upbringing is not by any means tempered with.
It is also important to note that violence in a home is never acceptable and can have serious adverse effects on children's behavior, development, academic success, and future health.
The role of parenting is not an easy task that a single parent can effectively do because he/she may not have as much emotional strength and time to invest in parenting the child alone, thereby living a vacuum. We must agree with the golden saying that "two are better than one.
Also the female children of divorced parents experience less trust and satisfaction in romantic relationships. Divorce in a family will always give the whole members a negative family history.
The children of divorced parents are less likely to view marriage as permanent and less likely to view it as a lifelong commitment. This may easily replicate in there marital destiny because they may not see anything wrong with that.
Children living with single mothers are much more likely to live in poverty than children living with both married parents.
Sometimes such children might lack proper upbringing thereby living a way worth life.
Children whose parents were divorced are more likely to experience verbal aggression and violence from their friends or peers during conflict resolution.
Conclusion!
Consequently, society should make every effort to support healthy marriages and to discourage married couples from divorcing. Religious leaders, marriage counselors, well-meaning folks should arise and say no to this societal enemy call divorce or separation.
I will like to invite my friends @rakiya, @gentlesun and @rossnenye to participate in this contest.
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What a very good teaching about this contest theme, i learn a lot from your post, as you tell us more about divorce as a factor of breaking homes today. I wish you success in your contest bro.
Amen! I am so delighted to have talked on such topic it makes me to see the need of join family system than it counter part. Kudos to Steem Kids and Parents for organizing such a sensitive contest.