Introduction

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It is good to be here today. It is the third week of the engagement challenge, and lots of entries are coming from different people in different countries. I must say that this is one of the great inventions by the Steemit team, ensuring that everyone is carried along, providing contests in different communities each week, and also rewarding some serious users with exit votes.

In this week's contest, we are expected to share with each other the positive or negative effect of parents' behavior on the kids.Kids are like angels; they don't know anything when they are young, and they can adapt easily to the things happening in their environment.

That's why it is safe to start from the very beginning to teach a child the good way of life. As parents, there are some issues that should not be discussed in the presence of the children, and there are also some things that parents should avoid the kids from doing.

As a good parent, if you eventually start from the very beginning to teach the child ethics and respect for those that are older than him or her, I don't really think the child will get into trouble or do annoying things in life. Not only teaching the child but also being a good example to the child, it is good if a parent plays the role of a role model in his or her child's life.
Now I will look into some hints in this topic.

How has your parent's behavior affected you? positively or negatively

My parents' behavior has had a very positive impact on my life. I take them as my role models because they really deserve it. I know that there are times when agumentation comes in between the two couples, but they will never let it affect us in any way.

They have always wanted the best for us, and they also teach us about life with examples of things that have happened to them in the past. They teach us everything we should know about life and prompt us to choose the ones that will fit our future.

Like my mom, she wakes up in the morning as early as 4:30am, and with these, all of us have also learned the same thing: we wake up early in the morning, do the things we are supposed to do, and then go to school very early.So is my dad; he is really hardworking and never likes seeing any of his children not busy with something.

He does everything in his power to see that we are not idols, even when we are back from school.

In conclusion, I will say that my dad and mom have really impacted me positively and have sacrificed a lot to see that we are successful in life.

Which of your parents' behaviors do you like most?

I will be frank and say that their behaviors are all fine. I don't really know which one to choose and leave the other behind. Mom is caring and hardworking, and dad is also caring and hardworking.

At this stage, I will say that I choose both of them, even now that my dad is no more and his memories still exist in my mind.

The best way parents can instill good values in their kids is by modeling them for them.

Values are qualities for which we are known, and for me, I can say that the best way parents can impact their kids is not only by maltreating them or shouting at them, but rather by using positive reinforcement to help their kids become good people in the future.

Positive reinforcement can be seen as offering a gift to someone who has done a great or ridiculous job. This gift might come with a handshake, a present, or others.It will go a long way toward helping strengthen the child to do more in the coming days.

By being a good example for the kids Any teacher that leaves examples or does things with examples is a good teacher, so being a parent is just like being a teacher: you will have to teach the child many good things about life, and most times you will have to let him or her know that the bad ones exist, so that they will not be afraid when that time comes.Parents should do things that their kids can really learn from, and those are the good things in life.

A short message to my parents

I am writing this very message with my heart at rest and in peace. You are good to me and have never allowed bad things to happen to me starting from the day I was born.

I must say that you guys are the best thing that has ever happened to me in life, and I can't just risk losing you.Words cannot really describe the love I feel for you, and I will always be the best child you have raised.

Conclusion

As a master, living your life with examples for the young ones around you will make everything turn around and become good to you. I really thank the community for this great contest, and I would also like to invite @vincent100, @graceani, and @bossj23 to participate in this contest.